Why Sean and Rachel’s fight blew up | Bachelor in Paradise 2023 & Golden Bachelor episode 4 recap

Hurricane Kat hits the beach and it causes some *big* waves. Sean takes a page from Kat's book of non-empathy and talks to Jess, inadvertently setting off a chain of events that causes the truth to be revealed... and how he's been painting Rachel as more into him than she is. In this Bachelor in Paradise 2023 episode 4 recap, we talk about why Rachel and Sean's fight went off the rails and what he could've done differently. It mostly involves just being honest and not having to put someone else down to make himself seem more desirable.

We then get into Golden Bachelor and our nuanced take on the Kathy and Theresa dynamic. We think Kathy was in the right but came across badly with her tone, and how Theresa wasn't innocent but came across like a victim because of Kathy's "zip it" comment. We then share our frontrunners of his season.

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