There But Not There: The Emotional Absent Father with Bishop Victor Powell | Red Flag Coaches | Ep. 14

Welcome to another powerful episode of The Red Flags Coach Podcast, where raw conversations meet real-life healing. 🔥In this episode, we're joined again by the dynamic and passionate Victor Powell as we dive deep into a topic that shapes generations: the presence or absence of a father. 👨🏾‍👧🏾‍👦Together, we unpack the emotional and generational impact fatherlessness has on our children, families, and communities, especially within the Black community. From personal stories that will leave you in tears to eye-opening statistics and hard truths, this conversation is a wake-up call for both fathers and mothers alike.💔 Hear the cries of kids who just want their fathers to show up. 💡 Learn how a father's voice shapes identity, confidence, and destiny. 🧠 Understand how co-parenting done right can change a child's life. 💬 Gain insight into how men can heal and re-enter their children’s lives with purpose.Whether you're a father, a mother, or someone who grew up without one, this episode is a must-watch. It’s about healing, truth, and reclaiming men's role in their children's lives.📣 Join the conversation. Drop your thoughts in the comments. 🎯 Like. Subscribe. Share this with someone who needs to hear it.🎧 Subscribe and follow for more unfiltered, healing-centered conversations! 📲 Connect with Victor Powell on Instagram & Facebook 📚 Check out his books on Amazon & Kindle – especially his latest bestseller on the pain of pastors.

6 Maj 40min

Welcome back to the Red Flag Coaches Podcast! 🎙️ Last week’s conversation with Bishop Victor L. Powell was so impactful, we had to come back for Part 2! This week, we continue diving deep into the emotional conditioning of Black men with our powerful topic: "He's Not Cold, He's Conditioned: Why Black Men Struggle to Communicate."In this episode, Lawrence Knighton and Bishop Powell explore: 🔹 How childhood trauma shapes adult communication 🔹 Why emotional suppression is both generational and survival-based 🔹 The silent wounds Black men carry into relationships 🔹 How slavery, generational trauma, and survival shaped emotional detachment Practical ways for men to start healing and talking openly 🔹 How women can create safe spaces without judgment 🔹 Why therapy is essential — and why it's strength, not weaknessThis is a real, raw, and necessary conversation that challenges old mindsets and offers tools for healing in our communities.Challenge for the week: Brothers — have ONE real, emotional conversation. And share this episode with another brother who needs it. Remember: "Silence might protect your pride, but it kills your connection."📚 Grab Bishop Powell’s new bestselling book on Amazon: The Cries of a Divorced Pastor 🌐 Follow Bishop Powell: VLP Think Big | Rhema Word Cathedral📚 Also, check out Lawrence Knighton's books:If It's Love, It Will LastHe's Not Your Man, It's Just Your TurnAvailable now at TheRedFlagCoach.com!📲 Follow The Red Flag Coaches on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook — and stay connected!

29 Apr 31min

In today's powerful episode, Lawrence Knighton sits down with the legendary Bishop Victor L. Powell for a heart-to-heart that every man and woman needs to hear. 💬We're diving into the deep truth: He’s Not Cold, He's Just Conditioned. Generations of silence. Suppressed emotions. Misunderstood masculinity. This isn't just a conversation — it’s a healing session. 🛠️Ladies, before you call him "emotionally unavailable," you need to hear what’s really going on beneath the surface. Fellas, it’s time to reclaim your voice, your healing, and your power. 🙌🏽🚩 Why black men were taught not to cry 🚩 How emotional shutdowns happen early 🚩 Why safe spaces matter for men 🚩 How women can help — not hurt — the healing journey 🚩 Why intellectual and emotional stimulation matters more than looks 🚩 How unhealed trauma kills connection in relationshipsThis episode will challenge you. Heal you. Open your eyes. 💥 Don't miss it. Hit that Subscribe button and Share this with someone who needs this truth TODAY!👥 Guest: Bishop Victor L. Powell 📚 Book: The Pain and Hurt of Pastors available on Amazon 🌐 Learn more at vlpthinkbig.com and rhemawordcathedral.orgFollow us: 🎥 TikTok | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook: @theredflagcoach

22 Apr 29min

Brothers, it’s time we talk. Not about the games. Not about the ghosting. But about intention.In this solo episode, Lawrence—the Red Flag Coach—is keeping it 100 with the fellas and the ladies. No fluff, no filters, just truth about how our dating habits shape our futures and destroy trust.If you’ve ever:Dated just to pass timeSent mixed signals you didn’t mean to keepStruggled with emotional availabilitySaid “I’m just vibing” while acting like a boyfriendHurt a good woman because you didn’t know what you wantedThis episode is for YOU.💔 Why we confuse comfort with connection 🧠 How our childhood trauma impacts how we show up in love 💬 Why honesty without consistency is manipulation 💡 What “dating with intention” really looks like 📢 And the truth most men won’t say out loud: Some of us don’t have commitment issues… we have character issues.Fellas, stop dating women who are ready to build if you're not ready to lead. Ladies, stop ignoring the signs when he shows you he’s not serious. Everyone, let’s stop wasting years of someone else’s life for convenience.Mic-drop line of the day: A real man leads with clarity, not chemistry.👀 Watch now. Reflect deeply. Share it with a brother who needs to hear this today.🎯 Are you dating for connection or convenience?Subscribe. Comment. Let’s heal the culture together.

15 Apr 34min

Tired of guessing what makes love last? We’ve got the blueprint. 💡In this episode of The Red Flag Coaches Podcast, we’re breaking down the 4 essential keys to building a strong, healthy, and lasting relationship—the kind that feels grounded, secure, and deeply fulfilling. 💞Because love shouldn’t be a guessing game. You deserve a connection that brings peace, not confusion. 💬🎯 What You'll Learn: ✅ How reliability builds trust ✅ Why emotional maturity is non-negotiable ✅ The power of radical honesty & transparency ✅ Why healthy relationships need balance & independenceWhether you're dating, committed, or preparing for the love you know you deserve, this episode is your blueprint for real, grown, lasting love.📣 Ready to level up your relationship standards?👇 DROP A COMMENT: Which of these keys do you already practice—and which one are you working on?💥 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like this video 🔔 Subscribe for weekly relationship wisdom 📲 Share it with someone who’s building love the right wayBecause real love isn’t luck—it’s intention.#TheLoveBlueprint #4RelationshipKeys #RedFlagCoaches #LawrenceKnighton #DrT #TracyKnighton

1 Apr 24min

That spark feels amazing… but is it enough to build real love? 😮‍💨 In this episode of The Red Flag Coaches, we’re unpacking one of the biggest debates in dating: Chemistry vs. Compatibility.We’re talking butterflies 🦋 vs. building blocks 🧱—because let’s be honest, one gets you hooked, the other keeps you happy.🎧 Tune in for real, raw, and refreshing grown folk talk about:Why chemistry can be dangerously deceiving 😳How trauma bonds masquerade as “sparks”The real meaning of compatibility 💯What makes a relationship last beyond the honeymoon phaseAnd how to balance passion and peace💡By the end, you’ll know how to stop chasing just the “high”—and start dating for alignment, depth, and future.👇 SOUND OFF IN THE COMMENTS: Have you ever fallen hard for chemistry… but realized the compatibility just wasn’t there? Or dated someone super aligned… but couldn’t find the spark? Tell us your story!❤️‍🔥 Don't forget to: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 🔔 Subscribe 📲 Share with someone who needs to hear thisBecause chemistry gets you in the door… but compatibility helps you stay. 💬✨#RedFlagCoaches #ChemistryVsCompatibility #RelationshipAdvice #DatingPodcast #LawrenceKnighton #DrT #DrTracyKnighton #HealthyRelationships #DatingWithIntention #LoveThatLasts #EmotionalMaturity #DatingWisdom #MidlifeLove #GrownFolkTalk #TraumaBonds #RealLove

25 Mars 31min

📢 Are you tired of hearing about red flags? It's time to flip the script!In this episode of the Red Flag Coaches Podcast, we're talking about GREEN FLAGS—the signs that someone is emotionally mature, kind, and ready for a healthy relationship. 💚What You'll Learn in Episode 7:💚 How to recognize emotionally available partners💬 Why active listening matters in dating📞 The power of consistent communication🛑 How they respect your boundaries🎯 Why genuine interest in your life makes a difference🔥 The #1 overlooked sign: healthy conflict resolution🚨 BONUS: We reveal a MAJOR green flag most people miss!🎙 Hosted by Lawrence Knighton and Dr. Tracy Knighton, this conversation is real, raw, and refreshing—perfect for anyone who wants to raise their dating standards!💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION!What’s a GREEN FLAG you always look for?Drop it in the comments! ⬇️📢 Don't forget to:✅ LIKE this video if you found it helpful🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more dating & relationship advice📲 SHARE this with someone who needs to hear it!🔗 FOLLOW US for more relationship insights:🌍 Website: https://www.theredflagcoach.com/📸 Instagram: www.instagram.com/theredflagcoaches#DatingAdvice #GreenFlags #HealthyRelationships #RedFlagCoaches #Podcast #Love #Relationships #LawrenceKnighton #DrT #DrTracyKnighton

18 Mars 25min