34. Why we love. Why it hurts

34. Why we love. Why it hurts

Why do we long for closeness and feel fear when it becomes real?

Why can two people love each other deeply and still not be able to carry the same life?


In this episode of 34o, Henrik reflects on love as a timeless human experience, from ancient texts and literature to modern relationships and heartbreak. About longing, jealousy, vulnerability and the courage it takes to stay present when love asks more of us than we feel ready to give.


This is not an episode about blame or answers.

It’s about awareness.

About learning to pause instead of react.

About seeing both our light and our shadow and choosing how we love.


If you’ve ever loved deeply, lost something that mattered, or wondered why intimacy can hurt as much as it heals, this episode is for you.

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11. Julia: Breaking the Chains of Shame & Fear

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10. Fear of Relationships: Choosing Love over Fear

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9. Decoding the Woman – From Performance to Presence

9. Decoding the Woman – From Performance to Presence

In this episode of 34o Podcast, Henrik reflects on how intimacy often gets lost in performance – doing what we think we “should” instead of being fully present. He explores what happens when we shift ...

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8. Susanne: Pleasure is not a performance

8. Susanne: Pleasure is not a performance

Susanne, from Germany, shares her story of moving from giving her body away to truly inhabiting it with presence and joy. Her journey is about meeting life — and love — with vulnerability, honesty, an...

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7. Carrie Elle: What women actually want

7. Carrie Elle: What women actually want

In this conversation with Carrie Elle, we explore male vulnerability, the difference between performance and true presence, and the deep-rooted fear of rejection that shapes how men show up in intimac...

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6. Sara & Peter: Heart, mind & sex

6. Sara & Peter: Heart, mind & sex

Sara & Peter’s story blends tantra, heart, and presence — creating intimacy as a co-created dance. With Britta’s reflections, we explore how couples can deepen both love and desire in everyday life.

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5. Andrea: From silence to sovereignty

5. Andrea: From silence to sovereignty

Raised in silence and control, Andrea carried abuse and shame — until she found healing through yoga, tantra, and self-love.With Britta’s reflections, we explore how inner work, vulnerability, sexual ...

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