Where Did My Orgasm Go? Menopause, SSRIs, and the Science of Pleasure with Dr. Lauren Streicher

What happens to your orgasm after menopause? It's something nearly half of women experience changes with in midlife, but so few are talking about it. In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver sits down with Dr. Lauren Streicher to discuss exactly what changes to orgasm, libido, and sex, why it happens, and what you need to know if you're struggling.

Dr. Streicher is a professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, the host of Dr. Streicher's Inside Information Podcast, and the creator of Come Again, a 30 episode audio series on sexuality and sexual function. She's a senior researcher at the Kinsey Institute and one of the true pioneers of sexual medicine, helping to define and legitimize a specialty that for decades simply didn't exist.

Dr. Haver and Dr. Streicher start with the basics: what an orgasm actually is, the anatomy of the clitoris, and why most women cannot have an orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Dr. Streicher explains vaginal orgasms, cervical orgasms, the G spot, and the historical research of Princess Marie Bonaparte, who measured the distance between the clitoris and vaginal opening in 240 women in an effort to understand why she couldn't orgasm during intercourse. They discuss what happens to orgasm and sex post menopause, including the role of blood flow, nerve health, clitoral atrophy, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and medications, especially SSRIs that can affect both libido and orgasm. Dr. Streicher walks through how genitourinary syndrome of menopause affects the clitoris, why the pelvic floor matters for orgasm, and why so many women have never even seen their own anatomy. They also talk about anorgasmia, the inability to have an orgasm, both primary and acquired, and why this is almost never discussed in medical training.

Guest links:

Dr. Streicher

Dr. Streicher (Instagram)

Dr. Streicher: Menopause: The Inside Info (Substack)

Dr. Streicher’s Inside Information: Menopause, Midlife, and More (Apple Podcasts)

COME AGAIN

Lauren Streicher - Faculty Profile (Northwestern Medicine)

Dr. Streicher (YouTube)

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DrStreicher.com/comeagain

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Dr. Streicher's Podcast

Dr. Streicher’s Inside Information: Menopause, Midlife and More

DrStreicher’s Substack

https://drstreicher.substack.com/

Gyne Hacks! (Including how to How to Get a Hands-free Free Vulvar View)

Books:

“Slip Sliding Away: Turning Back the Clock on Your Vagina,” by Dr. Lauren Streicher