#184 - Socially Connected, Emotionally Unsettled: The Friendship Paradox in Your 20s (Dr. Jeffrey Hall)

#184 - Socially Connected, Emotionally Unsettled: The Friendship Paradox in Your 20s (Dr. Jeffrey Hall)

You can have friends. You can have plans. You can be socially active—and still feel emotionally unsettled. In this episode, Nina talks with Dr. Jeffrey Hall, professor and department chair of Communication Studies at the University of Kansas and director of the Relationships and Technology Lab, about what he calls the Loneliness and Connection Paradox: the experience of feeling socially connected and lonely at the same time. Dr. Hall, whose research on how long it takes to make close friends is widely cited (yes, the 200-hour study), shares new findings from the American Friendship Project exploring why this tension shows up most often during seasons of transition—especially in emerging adulthood (ages 18–30), but also during moves, career shifts, divorce, dating, kids leaving home, and other life changes. They discuss why loneliness isn’t always a red flag, how major life transitions disrupt our sense of social stability, why women may feel this ambivalence more intensely, and what it means to develop “ontological security”—that settled feeling when your life (and friendships) stop churning. They also touch on social media, generational narratives about loneliness, and new research suggesting that feeling connected today can actually increase your energy tomorrow. If friendships feel slower, shakier, or strangely unsatisfying—even though you have people in your life—this episode will give you a smarter frame for what’s happening. Special thank you, as always, to my assistant producer, Rebekah Jacobs!

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#214 - Are We Giving Up on Our Friends Too Quickly? (Melissa Radke)

#214 - Are We Giving Up on Our Friends Too Quickly? (Melissa Radke)

Are we too quick to decide a friendship isn’t working? Melissa Radke and I talk about friendship breakups we regretted, jealousy, uneven effort, fear of rejection, friendship “tests,” and the urge to ...

5 Loka 46min

#213 - Friendship "Flings," Uneven Effort, and Being Stuck in the Middle (Dr. Miriam Kirmayer)

#213 - Friendship "Flings," Uneven Effort, and Being Stuck in the Middle (Dr. Miriam Kirmayer)

What does it mean when a friendship gets intense fast, one person always does the reaching out, or a friend treats you differently in a group? Dr. Miriam Kirmayer is back to unpack those gray areas, p...

28 Syys 52min

#212 - What Your Behavior May Be Saying to Your Friends (Laura Tremaine)

#212 - What Your Behavior May Be Saying to Your Friends (Laura Tremaine)

What does your behavior communicate to your friends—even when you genuinely care about them? Author, Laura Tremaine, joins me to talk about the gap between good intentions and follow-through, why clos...

22 Syys 36min

#211 - You Don’t Have to Be Fully Secure to Have Good Friendships (Dr. Marisa G. Franco)

#211 - You Don’t Have to Be Fully Secure to Have Good Friendships (Dr. Marisa G. Franco)

Dr. Marisa G. Franco returns to talk about her new book, Worth, and how self-worth shapes the way we experience friendship. We discuss why old rejection can follow us into new relationships, how insec...

14 Syys 36min

#210 - AI, Friendship, and the Danger of Outsourcing Connection (Sarah Baldeo)

#210 - AI, Friendship, and the Danger of Outsourcing Connection (Sarah Baldeo)

What happens when AI starts to feel less like a tool and more like a friend? I spoke with neuroscientist and AI futurist Sarah Baldeo about outsourcing empathy and emotional processing, why real relat...

6 Syys 40min

#209 - Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Kids and Adults (Caroline Maguire)

#209 - Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Kids and Adults (Caroline Maguire)

Friendship expert Caroline Maguire joins me to talk about friendship skills for neurodivergent kids and adults. We discuss encouraging connection without forcing it, handling rejection, understanding ...

30 Elo 48min

#208 - Making Friends at Any Age Takes a Little Risk (Harlan Cohen)

#208 - Making Friends at Any Age Takes a Little Risk (Harlan Cohen)

Making friends at any age requires some willingness to put yourself out there—and to accept that not every invitation, effort, or friendship will go the way you hoped. New York Times bestselling auth...

23 Elo 40min

#207 - The Teen Friendship Habits We Bring Into Adulthood (Sheri Gazitt)

#207 - The Teen Friendship Habits We Bring Into Adulthood (Sheri Gazitt)

Friendship habits don’t necessarily disappear when we grow up. Nina talks with teen friendship expert Sheri Gazitt about the patterns that can follow us into adulthood, including how we handle exclusi...

16 Elo 29min

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