Pickleball DUPR Rating Frustration and How to Know If You’re Hearing God or Your Ego - Diary Series Part 4

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In Day 4 of my Diary Series on The Danette May Show, I share a real and unfiltered look into my competitive edge, my unexpected pickleball rating experience, and what it stirred up inside of me. From chasing my DUPR score to navigating frustration, identity, and ego, I reflect on how quickly we attach meaning to performance and labels. I also open up about the importance of rest, honoring slower Sundays, and allowing space to reset before stepping into a full week of leadership, meetings, and responsibility.

This episode takes a deeper spiritual turn as I unpack a powerful message that came to me in the middle of the night about mind chatter, intuition, and discerning the voice of God from the voice of the human ego. I explore meditation, self awareness, entrepreneurship, purpose, and how often we justify big decisions as divine guidance when they may be driven by ambition or identity. If you are on a spiritual growth journey, building a business, questioning your inner voice, or seeking clarity between intuition and overthinking, this conversation will invite you into deeper reflection and conscious alignment.

IN THIS EPISODE:

(0:00) Day 4 diary kickoff: The missing DUPR score and competitive ego

(1:17) Season 3 celebration and 150 dollar visa gift card giveaway

(2:13) Pickleball rating confusion: No pro, random partners, and score sheets

(3:58) Ego triggers, inconsistency, and why pickleball humbles you fast

(5:30) Sunday reset ritual: Rest, nervous system regulation, and preparing for high performance

(6:44) Dream message download: Are we hearing god or our own mind

(8:35) Entrepreneurship, ego, and when “god told me” becomes justification

(10:06) Spiritual discernment: Meditation, prayer, and quieting mind chatter

(13:12) Higher power, ancestors, and integrating true guidance into daily life