Episode 159 - Why Your “Yes” Feels So Hard to Find

Episode 159 - Why Your “Yes” Feels So Hard to Find

The reason you feel stuck is not because you’re weak or broken, even though your brain may be telling you that. You’re stuck because you’ve gotten so good at being fine for so long that you and everyone around you don’t know anything different. Even when you can understand that, there’s often another layer underneath it: this pattern is so ingrained that you don’t even know what you want anymore. In this episode, I’m breaking down why your “no” has become so loud, and how you can start to find your way back to your “yes” and the life you actually want. Here’s what I cover:


  • Why your brain is already listing reasons something won’t work before your “yes” can fully form
  • How years of deferring to everyone else can disconnect you from yourself and what you want
  • How a part of you has learned to shut down your “yes” to protect you from disappointment
  • Why you can’t logic your way past these patterns and what it looks like to build a relationship with them instead
  • How learning to hear your “yes” again is a skill you can build by starting small and practicing over time


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Episode 179 - Best Of: My Favorite Sentences

Episode 179 - Best Of: My Favorite Sentences

The holiday season is approaching fast, and alongside the excitement, you may already be feeling the weight of all the expectations that come with it. Between family traditions, travel plans, and tryi...

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Episode 178 - Why Overthinking Keeps Us From Doing What We Want with Priyanka Venugopal

Episode 178 - Why Overthinking Keeps Us From Doing What We Want with Priyanka Venugopal

Overthinking can cost you more than time. It can keep you from taking chances and becoming the person who can have what you want. In this episode, you’ll hear a conversation with Dr. Priyanka Venugopa...

7 Loka 44min

Episode 177 - Boundaries Tune-Up

Episode 177 - Boundaries Tune-Up

How much time and energy do you spend defending choices you’ve already trusted yourself to make? Whether it’s your career, parenting, relationships, or something else entirely, it’s exhausting to keep...

30 Syys 22min

Episode 176 - How Good Girl Conditioning Shows Up in Dating with Dr. Jennie Young

Episode 176 - How Good Girl Conditioning Shows Up in Dating with Dr. Jennie Young

How much time do you spend overanalyzing the texts you send to a potential partner or giving guys on dating apps a chance because they seem to have the traits you’ve been taught to look for? If you’re...

23 Syys 53min

What Do You Say When... You Don't Want to Go?

What Do You Say When... You Don't Want to Go?

What do you say when you don’t want to go? Your friends are making plans, everyone is excited, and you’re worried that if you say “no” this time, they’ll stop inviting you altogether. So you say “yes”...

15 Syys 6min

What Do You Say When... You're Unhappy With How it Turned Out?

What Do You Say When... You're Unhappy With How it Turned Out?

What do you say when you’re unhappy with how it turned out? You get your nails done or have new bathroom tile put in, and the work isn’t what you expected. Still, you hesitate to say anything because ...

14 Syys 6min

What Do You Say When... Your Kid Wants the Money Before He Does the Work?

What Do You Say When... Your Kid Wants the Money Before He Does the Work?

What do you say when your kid wants the money before he does the work? You know the lawn hasn’t been mowed, but when he comes asking for $40, it feels easier to say “yes” than to deal with his disappo...

13 Syys 7min

What Do You Say When... You're Done Being the Family Peacemaker?

What Do You Say When... You're Done Being the Family Peacemaker?

What do you say when you’re done being the family peacemaker? This pattern has probably been going on for years. You may tell yourself that someone has to do it or that it’s just easier when you handl...

12 Syys 7min

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