Bonus - An Episode Honoring Jill Smokler: Friendship, Cancer, and Community

Bonus - An Episode Honoring Jill Smokler: Friendship, Cancer, and Community

In this bonus episode, I’m honoring my friend Jill Smokler by sharing again the conversation she asked me to record with her in the summer of 2024, soon after she was diagnosed with glioblastoma, an aggressive form of brain cancer. Jill died on June 22, 2026, and I’m replaying this episode around what would have been her 49th birthday. Jill was the founder of Scary Mommy and later the creator of She’s Got Issues. Her writing, humor, honesty, and support of other writers helped countless women feel less alone. In this conversation, Jill speaks frankly about her diagnosis, the outpouring of love she received from every era of her life, and what friendship looks like in a crisis. We talked about what helped, what didn’t, why “you don’t have to respond” can be such a gift, and the importance of brief, consistent check-ins with no expectations. It is heartbreaking, funny, blunt, generous, and pure Jill. Special thank you, as always, to my assistant producer, Rebekah Jacobs!

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#213 - Friendship "Flings," Uneven Effort, and Being Stuck in the Middle (Dr. Miriam Kirmayer)

#213 - Friendship "Flings," Uneven Effort, and Being Stuck in the Middle (Dr. Miriam Kirmayer)

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#212 - What Your Behavior May Be Saying to Your Friends (Laura Tremaine)

#212 - What Your Behavior May Be Saying to Your Friends (Laura Tremaine)

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22 Syys 36min

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#211 - You Don’t Have to Be Fully Secure to Have Good Friendships (Dr. Marisa G. Franco)

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#210 - AI, Friendship, and the Danger of Outsourcing Connection (Sarah Baldeo)

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6 Syys 40min

#209 - Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Kids and Adults (Caroline Maguire)

#209 - Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Kids and Adults (Caroline Maguire)

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30 Elo 48min

#208 - Making Friends at Any Age Takes a Little Risk (Harlan Cohen)

#208 - Making Friends at Any Age Takes a Little Risk (Harlan Cohen)

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23 Elo 40min

#207 - The Teen Friendship Habits We Bring Into Adulthood (Sheri Gazitt)

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