176: The More Useful You Are, The Less You’re Valued

176: The More Useful You Are, The Less You’re Valued

UNBOTHERED 3 Day Intensive

The more you do for him the more he will love you. That is what they told you. That is wrong.


In this episode Margarita breaks down the psychology of why making yourself useful is actually costing you the love, respect and value you are trying to earn.T his one is going to change how you show up in every relationship in your life.


In this episode:

1. Women are taught that love is earned through usefulness

2. The IKEA effect and why effort creates value

3. Stop robbing men of the chance to contribute

4. Useful is not memorable, it just fades into the background

5. Being needed and being loved are not the same thing

6. Every yes teaches people what to expect from you

7. Difficulty creates investment, not manipulation

8. Being low maintenance becomes self abandonment

9. Make people earn access to you through standards not games

10. Become unforgettable, not indispensable


If you do everything and still do not feel valued, if you have made yourself so convenient you have disappeared, or if you are needed but not truly chosen, this one is for you.


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