Does Long Term Mean Low Desire

Nobody wants to admit it. But after years with the same person the desire shifts. Is that normal? Is it a problem?

Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they are going somewhere most people don't want to go what really happens to intimacy in a long term relationship.

Does desire naturally decline over time? If you find yourself curious about something different, does that make you a bad partner or just an honest human being?

Kash comes in with a perspective and breaks down the difference between sexual chemistry and sexual alignment and why alignment is actually what keeps couples together long after the chemistry fades. Rico says boredom is real and the same moves after ten years is a conversation worth having. Taz gets honest about what she actually values in a relationship versus what the world tells her she should. And Luis?

Luis draws the line between looking, liking, and acting and says longevity depends on which side of that line you stay on. Then a caller drops a situation that stops the whole panel. Nine years in, and her man has gone from every day to once a month.

Nobody fully agrees on what's causing it. Everybody has an opinion on what she should do next. Sex can get boring without connection.

The question is do you even want the longevity?

We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.

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