Girl Talk With My Twin: Boys, Friendships, Intimacy & College

DOUBLE TROUBLE IS OFFICIALLY HERE 😭🎀 KJ is now officially joining me as the co-host of the podcast, and I’m SO excited for this new era.

In this episode, we’re basically catching you up on everything going on in our lives right now — traveling, Nashville, cruises, New York Fashion Week, our upcoming Salem trip, our current Starbucks obsessions, and all of the random chaos happening behind the scenes.

But then we get into some of your questions, and girl… we cover A LOT.

We talk about intimacy, how past experiences can affect the way your body responds in relationships, somatic healing, learning to listen to yourself, and why there is absolutely NO timeline you need to follow when it comes to being intimate with someone. You never owe somebody access to you just because you’re dating them, because everyone else is doing it, or because you feel like you “should” be ready.

We also get into friendships and GIRL CODE 👀 — dating a friend’s ex, when something crosses a boundary, being honest with your friends even when they don’t necessarily want to hear it, and why I genuinely think female friendships are one of the most important relationships we can have in our lives.

Then we answer more of your college and relationship questions: how to tell if a guy actually has genuine intentions, red flags to watch for, dealing with homesickness, keeping long-distance friendships alive, and why having your own community and your own life makes dating SO much healthier.

This episode is basically girl talk, life updates, relationship advice, friendship advice, healing, college chaos, and KJ and I talking way too much all rolled into one. 😭💗

And I think one of the biggest reminders from this episode is this: you do not have to rush your life. Not intimacy. Not relationships. Not friendships. Not figuring yourself out. Listen to yourself, communicate, protect the relationships that genuinely pour into you, and let yourself grow at your own pace.

Love you girlies. Welcome to the new podcast era. 💋

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CHAPTERS
00:00 — Double Trouble Begins
03:02 — KJ Is Officially Joining the Podcast
05:58 — Life Updates + Our Recent Travels
08:58 — Starbucks Pumpkin Season Is HERE
11:55 — Nashville, Minnesota & Cruise Adventures
14:59 — New York Fashion Week + Our Salem Trip
17:53 — Answering Your Intimacy & Relationship Questions
19:24 — Somatic Healing, Trauma & Listening to Your Body
25:31 — Relationships, Boundaries & Communication
36:45 — Is This Violating Girl Code?
44:56 — Why Female Friendships Matter SO Much
46:32 — Dating & Relationships in College
53:07 — How to Deal With Homesickness
56:47 — Making Long-Distance Friendships Last
61:20 — How to Tell If His Intentions Are Genuine
64:00 — Closing Thoughts + What’s Coming Next

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