460. The psychology of 'good girl' syndrome

460. The psychology of 'good girl' syndrome

Many of us are conditioned to believe that being described as kind, nice, accommodating and generous are the key to overall happiness. But when these traits veer into Good Girl Syndrome, we can be left with a pathological need to please others, be hypervigilant towards others’ emotions, and ultimately suppress how we really feel. In this episode, we explore the origins of Good Girl Syndrome, understand the mental and physical cost of emotional suppression, and learn how to challenge this early social conditioning.

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We unpack:

  • Why women are particularly vulnerable to Good Girl Syndrome
  • How trying to be liked shows up personally and professionally
  • The link between a high score on the Silencing the Self Scale and depression
  • Why it can be harder to break Good Girl habits as we get older
  • The ways we can challenge Good Girl Syndrome traits

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Our favourite sources:

https://reachlink.com/advice/general/good-girl-syndrome-why-compliance-destroys-mental-health/
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a34642791/good-girl-complex/
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/362662346_Appendix_A_The_Silencing_the_Self_Scale

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