116: If a Wife Has Unmet Expectations and a Husband Feels Like His Efforts Aren’t Enough

116: If a Wife Has Unmet Expectations and a Husband Feels Like His Efforts Aren’t Enough

When working to overcome pornography addiction or habit, it’s easy for expectations to not be met..

This work is difficult, and if a wife has expectations of him sharing, growing, and improving, but his capacity is limited, there can be a breakdown in the marriage.

She might feel like he’s not really trying and that he doesn’t care about her.

He can feel like no matter what he does, it’ll never be good enough.

And when couples get caught in this type of spiral, it actually de-motivates and discourages action and progress.

In this episode, I share with you a new way of looking at this so that both a husband and wife can feel progress at every phase of the journey, regardless of whether the expectations are met or not.

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268: Live Call: How to Quit Porn If Stress and Procrastinate Trigger You

268: Live Call: How to Quit Porn If Stress and Procrastinate Trigger You

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

8 Loka 24min

267: If She Brings Up Her Pain and the Conversations End in a Fight, Try this.

267: If She Brings Up Her Pain and the Conversations End in a Fight, Try this.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

1 Loka 16min

266: 5 Step Plan for Married Men to Quit Porn Before 2026 Ends

266: 5 Step Plan for Married Men to Quit Porn Before 2026 Ends

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

24 Syys 16min

265: Success Story: Mark is Free After Over 20 Years of Pornography Addiction. Here's How.

265: Success Story: Mark is Free After Over 20 Years of Pornography Addiction. Here's How.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

17 Syys 36min

264: She’s Completely Shut Down After Discovery and He Doesn't Know What to Do. Start Here.

264: She’s Completely Shut Down After Discovery and He Doesn't Know What to Do. Start Here.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

10 Syys 19min

263: He Says His Pornography Urges Are Gone. How Can She Trust That? And What Can You Both Do If She Doesn’t?

263: He Says His Pornography Urges Are Gone. How Can She Trust That? And What Can You Both Do If She Doesn’t?

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

3 Syys 25min

262: If You're Slipping Every Few Weeks or Months, Here's Exactly How to Stop It

262: If You're Slipping Every Few Weeks or Months, Here's Exactly How to Stop It

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

27 Elo 18min

261: Live Session – Breaking Belief of Not Being Good Enough (in 22 minutes)

261: Live Session – Breaking Belief of Not Being Good Enough (in 22 minutes)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

20 Elo 21min

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