You Are Not Broken19 Syys 2021

For the Men! Sex Surrogacy and Coaching

Today we welcome Erika Davian – we are both certified at the Life coach school and someone connected us!

I had been saying that someone ought to coach the men! And then she showed up in my life!

Today we are learning about surrogate partner therapy with her.

We need to pay attention to the men too! And we are in this episode! She tells us how she got into this niche.

She helps millennial men cultivate the confidence to create the life they want in and out of the bedroom. She helps them show up as themselves.

A myth is that “straight men have it so easy” when in fact they have a lot of pressure to “be” a certain way as much if not more than other people.

She quickly saw that some clients-- particularly younger clients-- thought their sexual dysfunction was purely physiological, when really, the psychological component was playing as big or an even bigger role.

What is a common limiting belief or scenarios that men have about sexuality?

“Anxiety and erections are not good bedfellows”

“there is one way to please a woman” is very pervasive.

“things are problems because we think they are problems”

She says - I’ve seen men encounter sexual dysfunction and shame, simply because their mind was sabotaging their body’s ability to perform.

Tips for men to start talking to their partner about sex.

Tips for premature ejaculation.

You help men manage their mind – what are some common themes that you see?

You can find her at www.sessionswitherika.com

and

erikadavian.com

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