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The Current Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects, Deborah Sims, joins Eva Oh for a fascinating discussion on women and freedom on the #teakink Podcast. We discover more about the origins of the Museum, WeWork Dominatrix Dungeons, Coven Garden Industrial Spanking, and the museum's objects - including a whip made from Meretrix hair of Roman times. Deborah and Eva chat rage, 'Poor Things', historical patterns of sexual and female liberation and the importance of remembering our history - including cases of forced female circumcision in Notting Hill not that long ago. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Deborah Sims, the Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects (02:15) - The Objects, from Roman times to Today (05:50) - Why the Museum Came About, Untold Stories and Straightjacketed Women (11:10) - The Intersection of Freedom, Desire and Cat Ladies (15:30) - Rage and Forced Female Circumcision in Notting Hill (20:35) - 'Poor Things', Female 'Hysteria' and Roe vs Wade (21:30) - Historical Patterns of Sexual and Female Liberation? (27:10) - The Importance of Remembering History (30:10) - Matriarchal Sex Cults and 18th Century Industrial Spanking (33:40) - Societal Challenges and Hopes for the Museum (37:40) - Coco de Mer and the Ladies of Covent Garden (40:30) - Sexy Soho Walking Tours and the WeWork Dominatrix Dungeon (43:05) - Manet's 'Olympia' (44:45) - The Unpaid Sexual Labour of Marriage vs(?) Sex Work (48:50) - Rethinking Censorship on Social Media, Awareness and Freedom(51:40) - Pain is Pleasure

10 Joulu 202454min

Matthew of Baron Books joins Eva Oh on her play space sofa to indulge us on the pornographic origins of Baron and how the influence of powerful women shaped his views on identity and sexuality. They also chat sex shops, cruising apps, The Death Book, medical fetish, feeders, Versace, Bruce La Bruce and so so much more.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Matthew of Baron Books(02:15) - How Baron Books Began(03:35) - What is P*rn at Baron?(04:30) - We Won The Baron Prize - with our P*rn, Grief Encounter(06:30) - Sex, Sexuality and Powerful Women(09:15) - Femininity and the Lack of Representation of Gay Men(11:30) - It Started with a Photography Project on Cottaging(15:00) - The Bruce La Bruce Book Launch in a Sex Shop(17:15) - The Baron Sex Shop?(18:55) - My Ongoing Gripe About the Lack of Queer Cruising(20:15) - The Digital vs the Physicality of Books(23:25) - Jackie Collins, Versace, the Bitch and Sarah Baker(26:34) - Baron’s Impact on Matthew’s ‘Dynasty’(28:15) - My Interest in Rage(29:04) - Baron and BDSM: Forniphilia with Namio Harukawa and Medical Fetishism with Romaine Slocombe(34:50) - How Baron Chooses Books(37:55) - Fat Bodies, Feeders and Control(40:10) - How Books and Baron are Evolving(43:50) - The Past, Present and Future of Sex Shops(46:40) - The Death Book, HIV, and Gay Identity(49:35) - Sex, Death, Control(52:25) - Problematic Projects, Publishing and Imprisonment

3 Joulu 202459min

Eva Oh joins Miss May at her playspace, E1 Darkroom, to talk dating, polyamory, the draw of filth and intensity, the 'ick' of the stereotypical 'dominant' man, the rarity of a good service sub and the deep deep importance of cleaning.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Miss May at her play space, E1 Darkroom(01:30) - Why Start a Playspace?(02:48) - The Draw of Filth and Intensity(04:40) - The E1 Darkroom Impact(06:20) - Cleaning, The Central Tenet(07:50) - The Rarity of a Good Service Subs(09:10) - Different Client Dynamics and Friend-Zones(12:20) - Dungeons and Dating(15:40) - Sadism, Objectification and Oral Sex(17:15) - Polyamory, Cheating and Evolving Desires(19:05) - An Excuse to Ask What I Want(19:40) - Miss May's Ideal Life(21:00) - Money and Sex Work vs the Investment of Dating(22:50) - 'Dominant' Men, the Ick and the Stereotype of the Patriarchy(26:40) - Professional Domination: Germany vs the UK(34:20) - How to be a Dominatrix - Hygiene! and...(36:20) - How to Hire E1 Darkroom

26 Marras 202442min

Venus is the organiser of Sex and Rage, a martial artist, fetish wrestler and soon to be stunt performer. In this conversation between Venus and Eva Oh we learn about Venus’ progression from stripping into fetish wrestling, the origins of Sex and Rage, Venus’ Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club, the various personas that she embodies; and the importance of power, presence and play.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Venus, Event Organiser, Sex Worker and Martial Artist(00:48) - Sex and Rage, The Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club(07:35) - Stripping and Fetish Wrestling(12:05) - Wrestling and Domination(13:10) - Lesbian Wrestling(14:30) - Venus vs The Wrestler Persona, Sativa(15:50) - Venus’ Self Defence Workshops(23:30) - Parallels between Martial Arts and Sex Worker Communities(27:25) - Martial Artists and Sensitivity(31:30) - Being Present, Fighting and F**king(33:25) - The Venus Persona(36:10) - The Future of Venus: Sex and Rage, Fighting, Stunts(38:20) - How Does it Feel to Get Hit?(42:25) - Venus’ Personal Perversions(44:45) - Power and Play

19 Marras 202446min

Eva Oh launches her own loose leaf teas! A Jasmine Silver Tip and an Aged Port Oolong. Watch her pour herself a tea ceremony as she takes us through the history of how and why #teakink began. A tale of Domme friends, secrets, censorship and platforming the margins.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Teas by Eva Oh(01:40) - Jasmine Silver Tip Loose Leaf Tea(02:12) - The History of #teakink, Domme Friends and Censorship(06:50) - Why Tea?(09:00) - What next?(10:55) - Aged Port Oolong Loose Leaf Tea(12:55) - My Naivety, Censorship and Platforming the Margins(16:15) - Thank you for your response to the Podcast

12 Marras 202419min

Watch one of Eva Oh’s mentoring sessions live on the #teakink Podcast. Miss Juni is an aspiring Dominatrix who booked a mentoring call with Eva Oh but ended up on her sofa with her questions instead. From red flags, to client application processes, socialising with clients, and setting rates; Eva and Juni cover a lot of ground. We also get an insight into Juni’s motivations, her use of OnlyFans as a space for trans activism and her thoughts on sissification from a trans perspective.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - A Mentoring Session with Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix(01:23) - Why Become a Dominatrix?(02:40) - Domination and Acceptance(05:19) - Sissification from a Trans Perspective(08:12) - Qtee Foxx, OnlyFans and Trans Activism(12:35) - Offensive Clients(18:00) - Red Flags in Professional Domination(25:00) - My Client Application Process(27:00) - Dominating the Every Day(31:00) - My Awkward Moment Trying Professional Submission(33:30) - How Do You Keep a Client Conversation Going?(35:00) - Bowling, Karaoke, and My Humiliation(38:00) - How Do You Create Long Term Clients?(42:00) - Sugar Babying, the Saviour Complex and Quitting the Industry(47:00) - Consent is Cool(48:50) - How Do You Ask for More? How Do We Handle Our Sense of Value?(01:00:50) - Work-Life Balance as a Dominatrix(01:04:00) - The Eva Oh Experience(01:06:50) - How Much Do You Give Before a Session?

5 Marras 20241h 12min

Jake Dean sits down with Eva Oh to chat week-long escort bookings, contentment, client demographics, the concept of ‘high end’ and the whorearchy; and so so much more. Eva shares her tips for managing long term client engagements, decompression and a family heirloom that grounds her as a part of the process.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Jake Dean, Who Starts out by Charming Me(02:33) - Jake, Escort and Escort Agency Owner(03:50) - Why Escorting: Playboy, Business Studies and Amsterdam(06:30) - Jake’s First Booking(07:30) - Customer Relationship Management in the Sex Industry(08:10) - How Escorting has Changed (For) Jake(11:50) - Friendship and Isolation(15:30) - Finding Contentment in Escorting(20:25) - Week-long Bookings with a Client?!(25:50) - How I Stay in Character-ish(27:50) - How I Decompress from a Long Booking: Habit, Practice and Boundaries(31:00) - Does Our Rates Effect Client Demographic and Behaviour?(34:00) - People Skills(35:15) - A Long Term Job(36:15) - Unpredictable and Questioning, Improving Self(38:55) - ‘High End’ and the Whorearchy?(41:35) - How Jake Runs His Escort Agency(48:45) - Escort Touring Quirks and Good Habits

29 Loka 202454min

‘Miss Mummy’ specialises in regression sessions for Adult Babies out of her specially built adult sized Nursery. Eva Oh joins Miss Mummy in the crib to discuss the motivations, vulnerability and stigma behind her practice; her Adult Baby counselling service; and the potential parallels between her work and that of a professional Dominatrix.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet ‘Miss Mummy’ in Her Adult Baby Crib(01:40) - Adult Babies and Regression(04:00) - My First Adult Baby Session and the Stigma I Felt(05:30) - How Miss Mummy Discovered Adult Babies(09:05) - How Miss Mummy Navigates Her Adult Babies’ Vulnerability(15:55) - Highly Sensitive People(17:25) - The Adult Baby Counselling Service(19:40) - Shame and Guilt(22:00) - Adult Baby Communities and Gatherings(23:27) - Dominatrix vs Mummy?(25:00) - Sex Work and Absurdity(27:30) - What an Adult Baby Experience Looks Like(30:20) - Freedom, Peace and Social Conditioning(34:00) - How Miss Mummy Integrates the Experience for a Client(38:00) - Miss Mummy’s Future(40:30) - What is the Demographic of an Adult Baby(40:50) - The Post-War History of Adult Babies(47:50) - Holding Men

22 Loka 202450min