Finding Mentorship and Training in Sex Work and Beyond

The Berlin Travel Guide that Eva Oh didn’t give you in Season 2 when she got sidetracked with a salacious story. But here it is! Club culture, sex clubs, sexuality learning spaces, kink festivals, bondage furniture makers, kink gear and fashion stores. Dig into Eva’s favourite places in Berlin, Germany - all from the comfort of her hotel bed after a successful weekend in Berlin herself. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Good Morning-ish from Berlin (00:59) - Why Do I Come to Berlin (04:00) - Club Culture, We Must of Course Talk about Berghain (09:00) - My First Berlin Sex Clubs and Playing with a Stranger (14:00) - Kit Kat Club, My Many Experiences There (19:55) - The German Fetish Ball (23:20) - Sexuality Learning Spaces, Karada House (24:30) - EURIX Rope Week (27:00) - Bondage Furniture Makers (28:40) - Kink Gear and Fashion Stores (31:00) - Playing with the Door Person at a Swingers Club

5 Maalis 202434min

Nobody told Eva Oh that there would be an influx of younger folk interested in dating women much older than them. Eva is called “mature” by a date for the first time and “Mommy” by multiple admirers and it stirs thoughts on how she could best approach this surprise. A #teakink episode that makes obvious the difference between the conversations we have around older men dating younger women versus the far more swept under the rug world of the older dating woman. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Being Called “Mature” on Dating Apps(00:55) - What Do I Do?!(01:12) - What I’m Looking For(02:25) - Nobody Told Me That There’d Be All This Interest(03:00) - “Cougars” and Their Fans(04:45) - Cindy Gallop’s TED Talk(06:25) - My Largest Age Gap(07:00) - Do I Entertain It?(07:30) - A Slave’s Age and Privilege Gap(08.55) - My First Age Gap Date(11:25) - How Desirability Evolves and What Sex Work Taught Me About It(12:45) - The More Commonly Talked About “Silver Fox”(14:10) - How I Might Embrace Being Called “Mommy”(16:30) - Age and Height on Dating Apps(18:00) - What is Appropriate? Give Me Dating Advice.(20:14) - Becoming Mommy Part 2?

27 Helmi 202421min

A bartender tells Eva Oh that she reminds him of his Mother, a Dominatrix. He shares more about what his childhood looked like with BDSM slaves around and Eva is inspired to imagine parenthood as a Dominatrix and Sex Worker. Her investigation finds her clients jumping at the chance to “provide” and proves to be a revealing exercise in societal stigma and suffering. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Dominatrix Walks into a Bar(02:00) - The Bartender Notices Something Familiar(02:55) - His Mother Is a Dominatrix(06:00) - I Start to Think About Motherhood(07:15) - Clients Jumping at the Chance(08:30) - The Logistics(11:00) - How Client-Slaves May Be Useful(13:00) - Ideal Conditions?(14:30) - Why I Decided Against It, Resources and Suffering(17:30) - Fostering(19:00) - A Revealing Exercise(20:55) - Telling My Child About My Work(21:30) - Sex Work, Kink and Parenthood(22:50) - Tell Me About Kink and Parenthood Resources!

20 Helmi 202424min

What is Eva Oh’s ultimate fantasy? Find out in this deeply revealing episode. A fantasy born out of graphic novels, porn channels and a lifetime of stimuli - Eva invites us into her masturbatory mind in fascinating detail. Inside we find a dystopian landscape, a robotic facility and otherworldly plays on light, texture, movement and sound. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - My Only Fantasy(01:00) - My First Wet Dream(02:10) - Erotic-ish Graphic Novels(03:00) - Motel Porn Channels(04:00) - The Evolution, from Dreams to Hentai to…(05:00) - Pay for Your Porn(06:40) - What Might Tie Everything Together?(07:00) - What is it?! Describing My Only Fantasy(07:20) - A Political and Societal Framework(08:30) - A Human-like Facility(09:10) - My Infiltration(10:55) - A Simulation(13:30) - A Morphing Dress(14:50) - The Initial Touch(15:15) - The Room Changes, I “Throw” Us Into Another Scene(15:55) - Auditory Hallucinations, Surrounding and Within(17:10) - A Platform Appears in Crystal Dust(19:00) - Merging with the Target, An Important Realisation(20:30) - The Visceral(21:30) - A Near Future(23:00) - What Might All This Mean?(27:00) - Zima Blue, Love Death and Robots(29:00) - Parallels with My Reality?(31:10) - How Could I Improve My Fantasy?

13 Helmi 202431min

Eva Oh kicks off Season 3 on a reflective note, indulging us in how she’s found the podcast so far and what she’s found to be her biggest reward. Eva reveals more on how she creates each episode; and opens up her voice notes - for you to ask questions and share stories that she will respond to and create a whole #teakink season out of next! Leave a voice note here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Season 3. How I’ve Found the Podcast So Far.(01:00) - The Biggest Reward(03:13) - What Season 3 Holds(04:20) - How I Create the Episodes and Why(07:14) - What Shall I Do with the Next Season?(07:55) - My Voice Notes are OPEN, Contribute to the Next Season

6 Helmi 202410min

In the riveting season finale of #teakink, Eva Oh delves deep into her career as a Dominatrix, sharing her approach to play, scene negotiation, and offering invaluable advice for BDSM newcomers.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink(00:24) How I Play as a Dominatrix(03:57) Inside My Mind During a Scene(05:12) How I Play Now(06:12) The Role BDSM Tools and Toys Play(07:49) How I Negotiate a Scene(09:09) Becoming And Being My Plaything(12:39) Familiarity and Comfort in My Relationships(13:41) Presence, Speed, and Communication(16:29) Is There an "Eva Oh" Domination Formula?(17:45) Donning and Discarding Intensity(20:30) Advice From Eva(24:50) Vulnerability and Ending Season 2

30 Tammi 202426min

Award-winning Dominatrix Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives. Listen in on a conversation that explores the evolution of human interaction, parallels to the early internet and sex work, chatbot rights, the ‘Interaction Arms Race’ and Åste’s Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test. Eva asks, can designing her AI Companion be done ethically or does that even matter? More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meeting Åste Amundsen, Interaction Researcher(01:40) - How Åste Found Me(02:40) - How Åste Thinks My Work Parallels to Hers(06:40) - Why AI Companies Are Interested in Me(07:30) - The Evolution of Human Interaction including Parasocial Relationship and How AI Could Manipulate Our Shortcomings(10:30) - Åste's Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test Installation(13:10) - Sex Workers as Interaction Experts(15:00) - The Evolution of Human Dating and it’s Merging with Technology(16:00) - Esther Perel’s Fears for AI Chatbots and Digital Interaction(18:00) - How Could I Design an AI Companion Ethically?(21:40) - Sex Work as Emotional Labour, Designing ‘Friction’ Into AI(24:40) - Sex Work Hobbyists(26:30) - Porn and Fantasy as a First Sexual Experience, AI Companionship as Similar?(27:30) - My One Fantasy(29:45) - Current Attempts at AI Companionship(32:00) - The Relational Bonding and Interaction Arms Race(33:00) - Chatbot Rights(34:00) - Government(34:30) - What Makes a “Good” Interaction?(37:00) - What Sex Work Might Become(37:40) - How Could We Value Ourselves(41:25) - How These Developments Might Evolve Us(42:40) - What Motivates Me to become an AI Companion(43:55) - An Opportunity(46:00) - Åste’s NSFW Chatbot Research(48:00) - The Disturbing and The Violent(50:00) - The Nether, A Play(52:40) - Angela Carter, Benefiting From Our Sexual Capacity(57:40) - The Transactional Nature of Interaction(59:10) - Potential and the Parallels to the Early Internet Links:Åste Amundsen, http://asteamundsen.com

23 Tammi 20241h 4min

Eva Oh revisits Berlin and takes us into an industrial neighborhood where two Dominatrixes would unlock an otherworldly BDSM experience. Later in the episode, Eva reflects on how Berlin has impacted her personally and professionally. And perhaps most importantly, Eva wonders if her professional kink life feeds into her private kink life, and where those boundaries lay. All that and more on this episode of #teakink.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) Hello From Berlin(02:07) My History With the City(03:47) My Introduction to the World of Sex Clubs(04:30) Studio Avalon(05:58) The Dominatrix Who Caught My Eye(07:21) I, A Woman, Arrive At The Dungeon(08:33) The Dungeon Interior and I, an Open Minded Sub(09:35) But Why is a Dominatrix Paying to Submit?(10:25) The Scene Begins(12:00) My First Exposure to Someone Else's Scent(13:45) Introducing Another Mistress(15:00) Pleasure and Screams(17:00) The Scene Simmers Down(19:20) Filet-o-Fish Sandwich With a Side of Berlin Memories(20:50) Berlin Today(22:50) A Personal Rendezvous With Myself

16 Tammi 202427min