The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics27 Helmi 2023

Part 2 with Sex Historian Dr. Kate Lister: kink, BDSM, feminization, sex work and more

Sex historian Dr. Kate Lister continues the conversation with Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika.

Ms Olivia leads off with how sex work revealed the value of her time. Ms Erika adds that moving from salaried worker to Distance Domination showed her how every single moment of her time is valuable whether doing sex work or anything other activity.

This leads to a conversation about skills learned during sex work that apply to other areas of life and work. Dr. Kate brings up boundaries (or lack thereof) in academia. This inspires a conversation about skill training in phone sex, running a business, and negotiating the gray area of paid intimacy.

Other topics in this episode include:
Sex toys in days of yore including what might be a stone dildo that is 6,000 years old!
Figging and using root vegetables for anal play
A question from a listener about spanking leads to talk about corporal punishment in the 18th century.
BDSM in the 18th and early 19th centuries.
Crossdressing, feminization and sissification
Male chastity
Erotica through the years including the value of 50 Shades of Grey

Dr. Kate has a podcast called Betwixt The Sheets which is the history of sex, scandal and society. You need to listen to this podcast! You will love it as much as we do!

Dr. Kate ends our podcast episode with an assignment that makes us all laugh!

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