The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics3 Heinä 2023

Male sub asks: what is a female led relationship?

Mistress Harper joins the ladies to talk about FLRs or Female Led Relationships.

This episode is inspired by an email sent to Mistress Olivia asking what is real and what is fantasy with FLRs.
This leads to a lively conversation with lots of laughs in addition to BDSM education from Femdoms who are in the kink scene in their private lives.

They start with the common definition of Female Led Relationships and point out that this may or may not include BDSM, power exchange, kink or any of those sorts of activities.

Learn:
Experiences with FLR in their personal relationships (Ms Erika’s answer makes us all laugh)
Levels of control in a Female Led RelationshipMs Harper makes the distinction between female led and “female did it” which is highly relatable!
Whether the ladies WANT Female Led Relationships in their personal lives (the answers might surprise you).

Mistress Harper has great insights into patriarchy, matriarchy, and gynarchy. What those are and how these terms relate to relationships where the Dominant woman is in control.

There’s talk about the difference between how women exchange power and a power imbalance fantasy - the fantasy isn’t wrong, it’s just that it’s hard to replicate a fantasy 24/7 - and not hard in a good way, hard in the exhausting kind of way.

These women are Femdoms who do Distance Domination so the conversation about FLR being sexualized is enlightening in terms of what is real and what is fantasy.

What is the difference between a Dominatrix, Pro Domme, Femdom, Dominant and woman in charge?

This ends up being a thoughtful conversation about gender, gender roles in society, malicious incompetence, work, culture, and social pressures to comply with what have been traditional norms.

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