Eleven Generations of Family Trauma - Tiziano Sguerso #72

Tiziano Sguerso says depression is almost always an interrupted movement with the mother, and that we carry as many as eleven generations of unresolved family trauma. He also says 90 percent of his clients are women, and traces that directly back to his own father's violence.

Tiziano Sguerso is a former professional fighter from Italy who now works full time in family constellations, the systemic therapy developed by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger. He found it in 2016 and left personal training for it in 2019.

What you will learn:

- What a family constellation actually is, and his claim that what goes unresolved passes down as many as eleven generations

- Why he says guilt, not laziness, is what makes people sabotage success the moment they pass what their parents earned

- His three rules for what gets you paid: the quality of the service, how badly it is needed, and how hard you are to replace

- Why he says an interrupted movement with the mother is behind depression, and behind trouble with relationships and money

- A guided exercise you can follow while listening, run live on one of the hosts

Chapters

00:00 From professional fighter in Italy to family constellations

03:06 What a family constellation is, and the morphogenetic field

04:43 Interrupted movements, and why the same person keeps turning up

08:00 Sabotage is guilt, and the thousand a week your parents never passed

09:24 The sibling who was never born, and how little free will he thinks we have

13:18 A violent father, a town run on fear, and jail at 18

16:03 What depression is, and why he traces it to the mother

18:49 No mother, no relationship, and why he calls money nurture

20:34 Breaking a family pattern, and the fear of being left alone

25:29 Do not give me the Tony Robbins version of acceptance

28:25 Trust in life comes from trusting your mother

30:36 A guided exercise, run live on one of the hosts

42:42 The three things that decide what you get paid

55:27 Money as the most spiritual tool there is

58:19 Fabio, and honouring the friend who did not make it out

1:01:25 The entanglement in his own relationship that he cannot break

1:08:00 The body is the most spiritual experience of them all

1:09:18 Why you cannot finish anything, and the grandfather lost at sea

1:21:55 How to choose a leader, and who his are

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