Mathilde Friis - Purity, Monstrosity, Her PhD and Slut Shaming

In this very special video episode of #teakink, Eva Oh brings us into the inner workings of Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world that hosts over 3000 bodies a month in London and Berlin. At Klub Verboten you may see a leather clad human puppy being led around on a leash, or a couple in latex chatting by the bar, or a mass of a more-some gyrating on the dance floor. But how does this all emerge, and do so in a way that can inspire such freedom? It takes a lot thought, structure, dungeon furniture, campaigning against oppression and an ever growing team of very dedicated people. In this episode Eva Oh reveals why the party means so much more to her than ‘just’ sex and she chats with a board member and a safeguard from the team who make it all happen. A special video episode produced by Viscerals. Sound by Zak Nicholls. Music by Simao. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) Welcome to Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world (01:43) What Happens Inside Klub Verboten (KV) (02:45) We Meet Ayo, A KV Safeguard (03:04) How to Get in to KV, and stay in (04:00) What are Safeguards (04:50) Safeguard Training and The Good Night Out Campaign (05:50) What Safeguards See and Do in the KV Playspace/Dungeon (07:40) How Ayo Became a Safeguard (09:00) the Team Behind KV (10:20) The Dress Code and Why it’s Important (12:10) Vanilla (Non-Kink/Queer) VS Kink Club Spaces (14:25) We Meet a Caged Gimp, a KV Board Member (15:50) Why the Gimp was Searching for a Space like KV (16:25) The KV Advisory Board (17:40) ‘Contemporary’ Kink Culture (18:45) What is Possible Inside KV (19:55) The Queer Kink Community (20:30) We Release the Gimp

8 Tammi 202421min

Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it. m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m (00.35) - The Foot Cam (00.56) - How We Met (02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts (02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me (03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’ (05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts (06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’ (07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations (08:10) - The Ruler will Rule (08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust (10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality (11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience (12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace (13.30) - Love and Lust (15.00) - m Learning Compassion (15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much (16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like (19.15) - Navigating Expectations (20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other (22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy (27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now (29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future (31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him? (35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice (39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t

2 Tammi 202440min

Eva Oh reflects on an intimate story concerning an ex-lover, a cousin, and a client who enjoys being a human ashtray and cuckold. She weaves a story of youth, anger, excitement, regret, and reconciliation, and reveals why she wants you, the listener, to have a transparent view into her life on #teakink.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) The Cuck, Lover, Cousin, and Client(02:51) Reconnecting in Australia(03:54) A Secret is Revealed(05:55) More Details About The Secret(06:39) A Dynamic Shift Happens(08:20) The Ex-Lover Reappears After the Chaos(09:23) "Only If You're Going To Be Useful"(11:29) The Cuck(12:49) A Human Ashtray(14:02) The Ex-Lover Meets the Cuck(15:50) A Look of Terror(17:26) Looking Back, More Negotiation(18:10) The Scene Wraps, We All Say Goodbye(19:47) Regret(21:11) Reconnecting With Exes(23:13 ) Why Did I Make #teakink

26 Joulu 202324min

Eva Oh breaks down the psychology that goes into designing BDSM dungeons. Why did she design her former dungeon in Bali to resemble an execution room, and why she is intrigued by last words, death, and performance? And for listers who are architects, see what Eva’s aspirations for her next dungeon are.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink(00:53) Building My First-Ever Dungeon(01:03) Death's Influence on Aesthetics(02:35) One's Last Words(04:17) Bringing My Execution Room to Life(05:12) Inviting My Practice Into My Space(06:36) Breaking Down the Experience In My Dungeon(10:38) Total Ownership and Control(12:36) Fantasy Aside, Realities Behind Creating a BDSM Space(13:57) The Dungeon in Cologne(14:34) My Future Dungeon and My Current Home(18:15) From My Past Spaces To My Life Now(21:05) Current Projects(21:50) A Thank You to Mistress Danielle Blunt(22:39) Final Thoughts on Death and The Execution Room

19 Joulu 202327min

Eva Oh sets the record straight about a lie spread by a former client: a dentist with a tickle fetish, a penchant for luxury credit cards, a yellow sports car, and dubious musical talents? Eva also shares insights into the art of spanking and a surprising revelation about her feet.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink(01:48) From The Dungeon to the Penthouse(04:51) The Tickling...and Everything Else, Begins(07:06) Chit Chat: Inconsistencies Unfold(08:53) Douchebag Black Cards and Yellow Sports Cars(11:47) Advice for New Dommes(12:00) What Was Real and What Was Artifice?(14:25) Moving From Tickling to Spanking(17:04) Protocol Behind Safe Spanking(22:04) Pinching Nipples With My Toes(23:02) You Don't Always Need a Suitcase of Tools

12 Joulu 202323min

Eva Oh Revisits an adventurous journey through Tokyo's kink scene, discovering the city's unique take on sex, modesty, and voyeurism. From erotic shower shows to theatrical shibari and BDSM hostess bars, uncover the hidden stories and personal anecdotes of Tokyo's sexual tapestry. By the end, you’ll have heard stories about Eva’s friendships, an tattoo’d submissive with an amusing relationship with pain, and what she plans to do next in Japan as a tourist.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:19) Revisiting Japanese Kink(2:12) The Mystique of Soap Bars(4:28) Shopping Kink Tools(06:37) Eroticism and Camp Within Japan's Shibari Scene(10:37) Sisters in Kink: Chiaki, Hinako, and Suzy Q(15:55) Stepping into BDSM Hostess Bars(18:51) Bodies, Pain, and Tattoos(19:29) No Pain, No Pain, No Pain(22:02) Ginger Cookies, Drinks, and Sushi in Rope Bars(23:11) Japan Without Speaking Japanese(24:26) Reflections(27:28) Away From Kink, Onto Local Vanilla Preferences(29:05) Repression and Conservatism(30:06) What to do in Japan Next Time?

5 Joulu 202332min

You’ve witnessed my dating successes, and now, I’ll dissect my former toxic relationship that was entrenched in the strange world of celebrity culture. It all starts in the dimly lit Thai restaurant located across my former apartment. Unbenounst to me, the minute I locked eyes with my date, the man, the enigma, who would trigger the emotional rollercoaster that ultimately became my life. Our relationship was defined by deception, gaslighting, and misogyny. This is the story about a relationship that chipped away at my confidence and trust, and how I overcame it. 
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:15) - My Worst Relationship? How We Met(07:30) - Joining the Band on Tour, Sort of(08:40) - I Move to London to be Together, He Reveals a Secret(10:50) - I Find Out More Secrets(12:15) - My First Experience with Gaslighting(14:20) - I Stay, and Follow Him Around the World(17:00) - Feeling Misunderstood(18:00) - Why I Share This(21:00) - How Meditation Played a Part(22:30) - Understanding Celebrity Culture(23:40) - A Revelation at the MTV Awards(25:50) - His Accusations(28:15) - More Red Flags(29:00) - He Starts to Denounce My Work, after being supportive initially(32:10) - Misogyny at Fuji Rock Festival, the Brit Awards...(36:40) - Ed Sheeran Saving the Day?(38:40) - How it Slowly and Painfully Ended

28 Marras 202343min

Let's unpack the intricacies of dating as a Dominatrix! It’s been a ride filled with thrills, dangers, self-discovery, and power. I start with recollection about when my newfound dominance found an eager partner I wasn't quite ready for. That story leads into my debatable luck on dating sites before pre-dating apps existed, my discovering the swinger community, what it’s like developing crushes on clients, and ultimately, you’ll see how how my dating habits today are influenced by the hard lessons I learned on the way. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Separating the Work and Dating Headspaces (02:00) - The Early Days of Dating as a Dominatrix (04:45) - "Derrick", My First Attempt (06:55) - My First Mistake (10:00) - My Luck(?) on Dating Sites (12:40) - How I 'Explained' What I Did for Work (15:55) - Sex-Positive Dating Sites and Associated Adventures (22:25) - Loneliness (23:40) - Crushes on Clients (26:10) - My First Long-term Partner as a Dominatrix, it was bad (27:44) - What I Learned from the Bad Experience (28:00) - How I Date Now

21 Marras 202336min