EP#175: Girlfriend Jess Spills How She Opened Her Marriage With Us

Opening Up the Marriage (00:01:13) Jess's experience of opening her marriage and dating. Initial Conversations (00:01:37) Jess shares the discussions she had with her ex about creating a dating profile. First Interaction on the App (00:03:37) Jess recounts how she discovered Jennifer's profile and initiated interest. Stepping into Bisexuality (00:05:45) Jess reflects on her journey of exploring her bisexuality and past dating experiences. Nervousness About First Dates (00:10:02) Jess admits her nervousness about going on first dates after years of being in a relationship. Sexting and Communication (00:11:01) Jess and Jennifer discuss their effective sexting and communication styles. First Date Setup (00:12:44) Jennifer shares how Scott prepared their vehicle for a romantic encounter. Importance of Individual Connections (00:19:56) Jess emphasizes the significance of one-on-one dates for deepening individual connections. Encouraging One-on-One Time (00:21:00) Jennifer emphasizes the importance of Jess and Scott having one-on-one time to deepen their connection. The Car Encounter (00:21:49) Jess and Jennifer share a playful encounter in the car, highlighting their adventurous side. Mall Cop Interruption (00:22:27) Their fun is interrupted by a mall cop, leading to a humorous and chaotic situation. Meeting Jess's Family (00:24:21) Jess expresses excitement about introducing Jennifer to her family, showcasing openness in her relationships. Sexual Connections (00:26:07) Jess and Jennifer discuss the depth of their connections beyond just sexual experiences. Using Communication Apps (00:27:01) They talk about their preferred communication methods to stay connected despite physical distance. Planning Intentional Time (00:31:02) Jennifer shares the importance of being intentional about spending time together amidst busy schedules. Kitchen Table Polyamory (00:33:01) The speakers explore the concept of kitchen table polyamory and its significance in their relationships. Intentional Relationship Dynamics (00:37:10) They discuss the importance of setting intentional dynamics with new partners to ensure compatibility. Sexual Bucket List (00:38:00) Jess shares her experiences crossing items off her sexual bucket list since opening up her marriage. Curiosity About Dungeon Scene (00:40:09) Jess expresses interest in exploring the dungeon sex scene and what it entails. High-End Sex Clubs (00:41:32) Mention of upscale sex clubs in cities like New Orleans, LA, and New York. Mushroom Experiences (00:42:35) Jess expresses interest in trying mushrooms, potentially enhancing their sexual experiences. Sex Fest on a Cruise (00:43:07) Ideas for a fun, kid-free cruise with a focus on sexual exploration. First Strip Club Experience (00:43:52) Jess recounts her first visit to a strip club and the fun that ensued. Vibrator Control at the Strip Club (00:44:12) A playful story about controlling each other's vibrators during a lap dance. Encouragement to Explore (00:45:22) Jess encourages listeners to pursue their interests in non-monogamous relationships. Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast