Ep. 87 - Interview: Megan Ixim, Fat Activist

“But who would marry a SWer?” “Are you going to keep doing this when you’re a mom?” “What are your kids going to think?” Society seems to think that SW and being a wife / mother cannot coexist - this week we have Jayne (therighteousstrip@outlook.com) joining us to tell the world how wrong that ideology is! Jayne is a fssw as well as a devoted mother and a loving wife. We chat with Jayne about: what a typical “date” looks like, how she finds and vets clients, how she remains safe while working, how sex with clients differs from sex in her personal life, how she manages being a fssw and a wife, how she navigates being a mother and a SWer, and how she maintains her mental health while being a working mom and partner.  As always, thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing (especially to all you hard working mamas out there!)

23 Tammi 202147min

Gia metric (@gia.metric), one of Canada’s top drag entertainers, has graced our universe since 2014. Since then, Gia has perfected her spacey, high-fashion persona and captivated countless venues and cities with her superstar qualities. Her endearing personality and advocacy of mental health awareness has made Gia a role model within her community and online. This episode we sit down with the fabulous Gia Metric and discuss: what terminology is appropriate and what is outdated, how to properly ask someone their pronouns and why it’s important, how Gia first got into drag and how it has developed over time, how one becomes a drag super star, the difficulties of dating as a drag artist, and some misconceptions / stigmas about drag that need to be debunked. It was an absolute treat sitting down with Gia this week and we know you’re all going to love listening to this episode! 💋 Have a wonderful week and happy ho-ing!

14 Tammi 20211h 51min

Happy 2021 my dears!! Welcome to the first episode of the new year! Danica is joined by Riley and we discuss: how we spent New Years Eve 2020, our resolutions for 2021, and our current podcast obsessions (Danica is LOVING Dr. Death podcast and Riley is a HUGE fan of the podcast My Favourite Murderer). And we tackle your first batch of questions for 2021: Is it cheating if you get paid ? Is it cheating if you are the one who’s paying for it ? If a customer wants to see you outside the club - What’s a reasonable amount and how do you make it seem valuable to them without doing extras? And what Cam sites do we suggest? Thanks for listening and we hope you are all having a fabulous start to 2021 !

7 Tammi 20211h 2min

Today we are joined by the fabulous Nicolle Hodges. She’s a Sexual Freedom Philosopher, an author, and a journalist (just to name a few titles). Pretty much Nicolle is "the Dr. Seuss of sex." She’s the founder of GIRLS WHO SAY FUCK , the creator of MEN WHO TAKE BATHS and the force behind the T-shirt campaign to "rebrand virginity to Sexual Debut". Nicolle is a former television personality for CTV Vancouver, which included reporting from Lesbos, Greece where she started an art camp for kids at the peak of the refugee crisis. She is also the former media consultant for the United Nations Women advisory committee in Vancouver and currently takes on the role of a lifestyle domme for a few lucky subs. This episode unpacks a ton of interesting topics: What do the terms “masculine “ and “feminine “ mean to you? What is it like coming out to the world as bisexual? What is a lifestyle domme? Why is the term “sex work” so charged? What does it mean to be sexually liberated and how can we get there?  We know you guys are going to LOVE this discussion and thank you for listening. Have a wonderful New Year and happy ho-ing!!

1 Tammi 20211h 39min

Well my dears, IT’S CHRISTMAS TIME (in 2 days)!! We hope you are all having a fabulous December and getting into the Christmas spirit as best you can (even though we can’t do a whole lot of socializing / celebrating this year… thanks C0vid). This episode we discuss: failed Christmas plans and gifts, the new Instagram and Tik Tok terms of use, companies exploiting the industry without supporting the community, advice for new “Ownlee F@ns” models, explain the Nordic model and how to manage a career dancing while wearing braces. Also, keeping with the holiday spirit, we answer your Christmas themed questions: When did we learn Santa wasn’t real? Christmas music - love it or hate it? What’s our favourite Christmas song & movie? What are our favourite Christmas traditions ?  As always, thank you for listening! Have a wonderful Christmas and happy ho ho ho-ing

23 Joulu 20201h 26min

Buckle up because this episode is another TWO- PARTER you won’t want to miss!  Two episodes ago we had the lovely Samantha Mack join us to give us the female perspective on the p0rn industry. Today we are joined by male p0rn star Derrick Pierce (@derrickpierce) to give us his take on the world of p0rn. Derrick is an American p0rn actor, p0rn director and host of his own podcast “THE SCHOLAR AND SINNER”. Known as the “Bad Boy of Adult” he’s been featured on GQ.com and buzzfeed, as well as being currently nominated for a yet ANOTHER AVN Award! We cover a ton of topics in this episode: what makes a a good make p0rn actor; how p0rn has changed in recent years; how psychotherapy helped his p0rn career; what it’s like dating as a porn star; and we get answers to a LOAD (no pun intended) of your listener questions!  Lastly, don’t forget to use our discount codes and save money when you purchase from our amazing sponsors:  - code : TRULYPLUSATIP (@trulylifestylebrand)  - code: DANI10 (@missenvybotanicals)  - code: TIP25 (@temptationsavenue) - code: DANIHAIR (@tiffany.valentina.bella)

17 Joulu 202059min

Buckle up because this episode is another TWO- PARTER you won't want to miss!  Two episodes ago we had the lovely Samantha Mack join us to give us the female perspective on the p0rn industry. Today we are joined by male p0rn star Derrick Pierce (@derrickpierce) to give us his take on the world of p0rn. Derrick is an American p0rn actor, p0rn director and host of his own podcast “THE SCHOLAR AND SINNER”. Known as the “Bad Boy of Adult” he’s been featured on GQ.com and buzzfeed, as well as being currently nominated for a yet ANOTHER AVN Award! We cover a ton of topics in this episode: what makes a a good make p0rn actor; how p0rn has changed in recent years; how psychotherapy helped his p0rn career; what it’s like dating as a porn star; and we get answers to a LOAD (no pun intended) of your listener questions!  Lastly, don’t forget to use our discount codes and save money when you purchase from our amazing sponsors:  - code : TRULYPLUSATIP (@trulylifestylebrand)  - code: DANI10 (@missenvybotanicals)  - code: TIP25 (@temptationsavenue) - code: DANIHAIR (@tiffany.valentina.bella)

17 Joulu 202059min

HAPPY DECEMBER - Tis the season (of stress)!!! This episode is short but sweet 💋 I’m joined by Riley via zoom and we discuss: school stress, the deadness of work this December, completing all our Christmas shopping, all the fun Christmas events we have planned, Riley’s upcoming surgery, and the new Instagram Terms of Use.  We also learn that Riley is a very “every person for themselves” type of girlfriend and Danica is an “us against the world” type partner.  Lastly, don’t forget to use our discount codes and save money when you purchase from our amazing sponsors:  - code : TRULYPLUSATIP (@trulylifestylebrand)  - code: DANI10 (@missenvybotanicals)  - code: TIP25 (@temptationsavenue) - code: DANIHAIR (@tiffany.valentina.bella)

10 Joulu 202035min