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On the show this week we have - Sonia Martin, LICSW, PIP, TBRI® PRACTITIONER from Lifeline Children Services. Sonia serves as Lifeline's Director in the Central Alabama area. She engages the central Alabama church community in implementing Families Count, birth mother support and services, and speaking to parents, professionals, Judges, DHR attorneys, & GAL’s at various conferences in the southeast on topics such as parenting kids from hard places and how to measure bonding and attachment in deciding best placement for children in foster care. Sonia is the mother of 7 teenage boys, 3 of which were adopted internationally and she is a foster parent for Montgomery County DHR. Sonia and Kandace discuss "typical" behaviors in foster and adoptive children, what parents need to be aware of and what is under the surface of those behaviors. And we have an in depth discussion where Sonia gives VERY practical examples of how we can flip the conversation and create connected moments when we are parenting and correcting. See what Lifeline is doing here: https://lifelinechild.org Follow Us IG/FB: @AdoptionHacks Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com

13 Loka 202042min

In this episode, Callie interviews Elena S. Hall, a Russian adoptee with a passion for adoption advocacy. Elena’s goal is to aid those in the adoption triad to promote healing and growth within the adoption community and empower readers to share their own stories. Elena is the author of 2 books which we discuss in this episode: Through Adopted Eyes which explores the world of adoption from the viewpoint of adoptees. Elena shares her own story and thoughts on the subject of adoption in addition to interviews from other adoptees of different ages, heritages, and perspectives. And Through Adopted Hearts which explores the world of adoption from the viewpoints of both birth and adoptive parents. If you are an adoptive parent, birth parent, adoptee, or just curious to learn more, these book provides thoughtful and challenging perspective into how adoption shapes and changes lives. If you’d like to join us in thanking Elena for her time and work in the adoptive community, you can do so via Venmo @elena_hall Check out all that Elena is doing here: Instagram: @throughadoptedeyes Facebook Amazon Audible Email Us: AdoptionHacksInfo@gmail.com IG/FB: AdoptionHacks

6 Loka 202033min

Steven Benedict is a Professional Track Athlete & Olympic Qualifier, Keynote Speaker, the founder of the Fostering Success Project, and Published Health Personality.  In this episode Steven tells his story of growing up in the foster system, how that led to his running career and how he is now using his platform to come alongside foster children.  His ongoing determination to his sport and companies runs parallel with his dedication to sharing a story that will inspire and highlight an oftentimes hidden reality. There are hundreds of thousands of adults and children like him who need to know that our experiences are not our finish line. More importantly, there are millions of people that need to hear his message. Resilience and the ability to overcome adversity is not just a story for kids in foster care or adopted homes, it is a story for everyone. Check out all that Steven is doing here:  https://www.stevieyb.com This episode is sponsored by GOEX - GOEX believes in the power of purchase. They use a simple t-shirt to connect their customers with their apparel makers. GOEX customers sustain fair wage jobs that liberate workers from poverty and empower them in their families and communities. They are proud to be a verified member of the Fair Trade Federation. Shop sustainable, eco-friendly t-shirts and sweatshirts with purpose today at goexapparel.com Email Us:  AdoptionHacksInfo@gmail.com FB/IG:  AdoptionHacks Review us on iTunes!

29 Syys 202047min

Welcome to Season 4 of Adoption Hacks! This season the show will be hosted by both Kandace Lecocq and Callie Troyer! We will be taking turns interviewing guests and coming together to discuss topics. This season 4 debut episode features Callie's husband Brian who is a licensed marriage and family therapist and TBRI practitioner and an adoptive dad. He is with us today to discuss practical ways to incorporate TBRI in your home. Trust Based Relational Intervention is an incredible tool especially for parenting children from hard places. But sometimes it can be hard to see how the science and the methods of TBRI translate into everyday life.. in your home.. with your child. In this episode you'll hear how TBRI comes into play in Brian and Callie's everyday parenting. This episode is sponsored by Brave Gals! Brave Gals mission is to empower Mompreneurs through a collection of apparel items with encouraging messages and fostering a community of women to share their Brave stories. Check out BraveGals.com and use coupon code adoptionhacks10 for 10% off! Rate us on iTunes! Follow Us (IG/FB): @adoptionhacks Email Us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com

22 Syys 202041min

EXCITING NEWS! Callie Troyer is joining Kandace Lecocq as Co-Host for Season 4! We are coming together to highlight voices in our community and meet you where you are in your adoptive/foster journey! Season 4 Debuts September 22nd!

1 Syys 202055s

Kandace and her husband Anthony answer listener questions this week! We discuss what we wish we would've known before adopting, can you begin the adoption journey still having a lot of questions or fears? How to talk with friends or family who are unsupportive, what cocooning was like for us, a message for adoptive dads and more!  That's a wrap on season 3! Thank you for your support/listens/messages/reviews! You make this podcast so fun to create! Follow Us on IG/FB @AdoptionHacks Email Us:  Adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com Music: DrummerBoy by Misterwives

30 Heinä 202027min

Sharday Dufresne is on the show this week to discuss racial issues inside of adoption. We discuss the history or racial injustices in adoption and agency practices, Saviorism, white privilege and adoptive parent privilege. We urge you to lean in and sit with these difficult topics... these conversations are crucial to our community. Sharday is a transracial adoptee who is inviting that voice within to rise up storyteller. She continues to champion and advocate for those in this triad community in hopes of gathering around the table to hear others stories rise up.  She, her husband and two little gents live in Long Beach, Calif. You are able to thank Sharday for her time via her Venmo @Sharday-Dufresne Race and Adoption Video: https://vimeo.com/kneetoknee/review/436426471/d8533345c3. Email us: adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com FB/IG @adoptionhacks

23 Heinä 202048min

Ashley Mitchell, owner of Big Tough Girl and Founder + Executive Director of Lifetime Healing Foundation, set out to seek increased care, understanding, and resources for birth mothers.  For over a decade, Ashley has been one of the most consistent and sought after birth mother voices in the nation.  Entering in to the adoptive community can be overwhelming to new adoptive parents so on this episode Ashley and Kandace discuss how AP's can find your footing and role in these conversations. Ashley shares how she has seen this community grow through tension and difficult conversations. We discuss Adoptive Parent Privilege and why it is so important for AP's to be listeners and life long learners. And we also discuss how AP's can use their voice and role to support adoptees and birth moms.  Find Ashley on Instagram @BigToughGirl  and also:  bigtoughgirl.com sitkneetoknee.com Find Us:  IG/FB @AdoptionHacks Email Us:  adoptionhacksinfo@gmail.com

16 Heinä 202049min