Ep 20 Helping Your Husband Or Enabling Addiction? A Litmus Test For Wives

Ep 20 Helping Your Husband Or Enabling Addiction? A Litmus Test For Wives

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re helping your husband or enabling his addiction, this episode is for you. As Christian wives, we’re called to love and support—but when codependency creeps in, it can be hard to tell if our actions are helping or hurting.

In today’s episode, I share two simple but powerful questions—your litmus test—to help you decide where a boundary might be needed. These questions will help you check your motives, discern if you're stepping into an enabler role, and bring clarity to those hard, in-the-moment decisions.

We’ll talk about how not setting boundaries can leave you feeling more like his mother than his wife, and how resentment often builds when we’re stuck in a cycle of codependency. We'll also explore the ever-shifting line between helping from a place of faith and unintentionally enabling, and why that line often has to be redrawn with each situation.

If you're navigating the storm of loving a man in addiction and want to reclaim your peace, this episode offers both practical tools and spiritual encouragement.

✨ Want to be added to the waitlist or get more info about 1:1 coaching sessions? 📩 Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com – I’d love to support you.

💬 Have a question you’d love to hear answered on the show? Send it to hello@wifeontherocks.com, and I’ll try to include it in a future episode.

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Ep 54 Codependency & Natural Consequences in Active Addiction

Ep 54 Codependency & Natural Consequences in Active Addiction

Listener Question Part 2:  "I find myself trying to control my husband's drinking and even some other things. We own a successful (for now) business and I manage it with him—but he is dropping the bal...

12 Elo 28min

Ep 53 The Impact of Addiction on Business and Income

Ep 53 The Impact of Addiction on Business and Income

Wife on The Rocks Marriage and Business - Listener Question "I find myself trying to control my husbands drinking and even some other things. We own a successful (for now) business and I manage it wit...

29 Heinä 24min

Ep 53 Rehab for a YEAR? Alcoholism Treatment Options

Ep 53 Rehab for a YEAR? Alcoholism Treatment Options

In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we continue last week's listener question and dive deep into one of the hardest parts of the recovery journey — deciding what rehab actually looks like for your f...

15 Heinä 17min

Ep 52 He's FINALLY Ready for Help: What I Wish I Knew BEFORE Rock Bottom

Ep 52 He's FINALLY Ready for Help: What I Wish I Knew BEFORE Rock Bottom

“My husband finally agreed to get help… What do we do now?” For years you may have prayed for your husband to recognize his alcoholism and addiction. But as wives when that moment finally comes, along...

12 Kesä 21min

EP 51 Parenting With An Alcoholic: Emtional Outbursts & Protecting Kids

EP 51 Parenting With An Alcoholic: Emtional Outbursts & Protecting Kids

In this Listener Q&A episode of Wife on the Rocks, I answer a heartbreaking question many wives silently carry: 👉 “How do I parent and protect my children when my husband struggles with alcoholism an...

19 Touko 28min

Bonus Episode: BIG Announcement & Trusting God In Alcoholism AND Recovery

Bonus Episode: BIG Announcement & Trusting God In Alcoholism AND Recovery

Wondering why there has been a pause in new episodes? Tune in to find out why!  God can do more than we ask or imagine and I will explain what that is looking like in my life right now ♥ Years ago in ...

29 Tammi 12min

Ep 50 Ever Wonder Why He Drinks More at the Holidays? INTERVIEW: Recovering Alcoholic Explains His Addiction Experience of Christmas Past.

Ep 50 Ever Wonder Why He Drinks More at the Holidays? INTERVIEW: Recovering Alcoholic Explains His Addiction Experience of Christmas Past.

Why does drinking seem to escalate every holiday season — and why does it feel so lonely for the wife watching it happen? In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we sit down together for an honest conv...

24 Joulu 202521min

Ep 49 Has He Stopped “Showing Up” for the Holidays? Guest Interview: Addiction, Alcoholism, Depression, and Anxiety Collide at Christmas

Ep 49 Has He Stopped “Showing Up” for the Holidays? Guest Interview: Addiction, Alcoholism, Depression, and Anxiety Collide at Christmas

What happens to holidays as alcoholism progresses? In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we share a deeply personal conversation about how alcohol addiction slowly changed our family’s holidays over ...

17 Joulu 202515min

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