Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship26 Touko 2025

#148 - Tricky Friendship Etiquette for the Modern Age with Daniel Post Senning

I sat down with fifth-generation etiquette expert Daniel Post Senning of The Emily Post Institute to explore how classic (and modern!) manners can strengthen and even rescue our adult friendships. We discussed using etiquette for group chat issues, RSVP blunders, office friendship confusion, misuse of AI, bringing up kids' cringe posts, cocktail party escapes, staying friends when your kids' friendship falters, and friendship breakups.

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LINKS & RESOURCES

Emily Post's Business Etiquette is the newest book from Dan and Lizzie
The Emily Post Institute on Instagram
Dan and Lizzie's podcast, Awesome Etiquette
We referred to one of my earliest episodes! #2 "When Your Friend's Kid is Being Mean to Your Kid"

MEET DANIEL POST SENNING:

Daniel Post Senning, great-great-grandson of Emily Post, is co-president with his cousin, Lizzie Post, at the Emily Post Institute. He manages the company’s training programs, has authored and co-authored many books on etiquette, covering topics from business to digital manners, and delivers seminars and speeches on these topics around the world. An active spokesperson for the Institute, he regularly speaks with media outlets about business, technology, and dining etiquette. Daniel has appeared on The Today Show, The History Channel, and ESPN, and has been interviewed by publications including the New York Times, GQ, Time Magazine, and the Wall Street Journal. He most enjoys answering questions as a co-host on the Institute’s weekly podcast, Awesome Etiquette, from his home in Duxbury, Vermont, where he lives with his wife, Puja, and their children, Anisha, Arya, and William.

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