The Power of Shared Experience
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The Power of Shared Experience

In this episode, Dr. Baruch HaLevi dives into one of the most transformative tools he teaches in men’s peer groups: the practice of experience sharing. Too often, men (and people in general) fall into the trap of giving advice—“you should do this”—which shuts down real connection and growth. Instead, Dr. B shows how shifting from fixing mode to sharing our own lived experience opens the door to authenticity, dignity, and transformation.

Whether you’re a father, husband, coach, or simply someone striving to show up better in your relationships, this episode reveals how to move beyond advice-giving and step into true presence and empathy.

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What You'll Learn:

The danger of “should-ing” – how advice shuts down conversation and connection.

Experience sharing explained – why telling your story helps others uncover their own solutions.

From clergy to coach – Dr. B’s journey of learning to let go of giving answers.

The dignity of free will – respecting others’ autonomy, even when they ask for advice.

Peer group practices – how men’s circles use tapping and tools to shift out of fixing mode.

Gestalt perspective – seeing the whole person instead of just their problem.


📌 Timestamp Highlights:

0:05 – Why men’s peer groups are so powerful and how tools apply to everyday life.

0:43 – “Should-ing all over everyone”: the natural impulse to give advice.

1:18 – How Dr. B’s background as a rabbi reinforced the expectation of having the answers.

2:18 – The impact of giving advice: shutting down conversations with kids and peers.

2:41 – Introduction to experience sharing as an alternative to advice.

3:38 – Adapting the level of guidance for children at different ages (4 vs. 14 vs. 24).

4:02 – Gestalt and the importance of seeing the “whole” rather than fragments.

5:15 – Why even as a coach or therapist, Dr. B refuses to dictate choices.

6:14 – Maintaining a man’s dignity and free will instead of giving the “easy out.”

6:50 – Why listening, empathizing, and sharing experiences is the real path to transformation.


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From Adversity to Awakening with Yehuda

From Adversity to Awakening with Yehuda

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Understanding Your Enneagram Type and Transforming Your Reactions

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