**Love or Lust at First Sight – Chemistry, Intuition, and Infatuation

**Love or Lust at First Sight – Chemistry, Intuition, and Infatuation

In this episode of **Sippin On Love**, we’re pouring up something smooth and a little dangerous—our **Frozen Brown Sugar Peach Old Fashion**—and diving into the eternal debate: **Is it love or lust at first sight?** 🥃


We explore the rush of attraction and the science behind it—how dopamine, oxytocin, and intuition spark that instant connection that feels almost magnetic. Drawing from [Executive Matchmakers](https://www.executivematchmakers.com/explaining-the-chemistry-of-lust/), we unpack the biology of desire and the psychology of infatuation to ask: can love really happen instantly, or does it always need time to grow?


💬 **Topics we sip on:**


* The chemistry of lust and the brain’s instant response to attraction

* How intuition and energy shape first impressions

* Infatuation vs. emotional connection—how to tell them apart

* The role of vulnerability and romantic idealism in mistaking lust for love

* How to recognize when fleeting passion deepens into genuine care


🍸 **Featured Cocktail:** **Frozen Brown Sugar Peach Old Fashion** — a sultry spin on a classic, blending sweet southern charm with bold heat.

Recipe via [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9X0cH3vuT3/?igsh=anFjbnVodTBvbDRq):


* 2 oz bourbon

* 1 oz brown sugar syrup

* 1 ripe peach (fresh or frozen)

* Dash of bitters

* Blend with ice until smooth and garnish with a peach slice


✨ **Key Takeaways:**


* Lust sparks fast; love builds slow and steady.

* Chemistry is real, but clarity takes time.

* Attraction can open the door—connection keeps it open.

* Love at first sight might just be recognition, not revelation.


#SippinOnLove #LoveVsLust #Chemistry #Infatuation #Relationships #Intuition #Attraction #LGBTQ #EmotionalConnection #RomanticRealism

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COMMUNICATION

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Core Values

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