10. Fear of Relationships: Choosing Love over Fear

Love is not always a feeling – it’s a choice. In this episode of 34o Podcast, Henrik explores what it means to stay when it feels easier to run, to choose presence when fear whispers “escape.” Vulnerability, patience, and honesty become the keys to building deeper intimacy.

The reflection is followed by a conversation with Mor Shavit, mindbody coach, who brings her perspective on attachment theory – from avoidant patterns that push love away, to anxious patterns that cling in fear of losing it, and the possibility of growing into secure love. She explains how these patterns show up in the body and shape the way we connect, and how true change begins when we create safety within ourselves first.

Together, Henrik and Mor uncover what it means to move from avoidance into presence, from fear into love – and how building secure attachment starts with awareness, self-compassion, and the courage to stay.