Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer14 Marras 2025

Losing Everything (w/ Tig Notaro)

In 2012, comedian Tig Notaro was diagnosed with invasive cancer, got pneumonia, contracted C. diff, went through a breakup, and then lost her mother - all within four months. Tig joins Nicole to talk about how surviving that period changed her outlook on life, how she rebuilt, and how an ironic “sweet dreams” text turned into the most adorable relationship with her wife Stephanie. They talk about how commitment ended up giving Tig a sense of freedom, finding comedy in the darkest moments in life, raising twins, and her new documentary Come See Me in the Good Light.

Check out Tig's new film, Come See Me in the Good Light, on Apple TV+. And listen to her podcast, Handsome.

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The AI Dating Dystopia (w/ Jarvis Johnson)

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The Catfish Who Wanted to "Teach Me a Lesson" (w/ Onya Nurve)

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Dating a Hollywood Scammer (w/ Bresha Webb)

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The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Date (w/ Eliot Glazer)

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