Handing the Shame Back

Although childhood sexual abuse occurs in childhood, the impacts are far reaching and go deep into adulthood as well. Have a look at this clip on some of the ripple out effects of abuse on survivors. ...

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Matiu Taitoko is a survivor of years of sexual abuse. He is now a peer support worker helping other male survivors in Canterbury, (Male Survivors Canterbury Service). He loves hunting and fishing and ...

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Tips for Supporting Survivors. This week the focus is on Boundaries. Have a listen as what you hear will provide more context around why setting boundaries is such an issue for us. Reach out with any ...

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Manipulation is something well known to us as survivors of child sexual abuse. It begins in silence and secrecy and unknowingly, and unwillingly we become party to the cover up. The manipulation has w...

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On Handing the shame back this week: Matiu Taitoko Survivor, shares his story. While remaining humble, he is also inspirational. My blog on Manipulation, which as survivors we can most definitely rela...

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For the full interview go to BeeYou TV and sign into Sean Stone's channel Sean Stone interviews me - and here is a snapshot of that. We discuss forgiving your abuser, (or not) . Shame is mentioned, ...

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Meet Jess Tyson Fellow Survivor, Founder and Director of Brave Charitable Trust. She was Miss World NZ in 2018. Journalist for current affairs Whakaata Māori. She believes that survivors should be...

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This blog offers some ideas on finding and keeping clarity in your life. For survivors of child sexual abuse, it can often be missing in action. Due to the trauma we have suffered, it is nowhere to be...

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