10 Hidden Power Plays Only Experienced Doms Use
#112 Ever met a Dom who can control a room without saying a word? In this episode, we're revealing the 10 hidden power plays only experienced Dominants use – how silence, attention, and anticipation b...
17 Marras 202524min
The Biggest Lies You’ve Been Told About BDSM & Kink
#111 What if everything you’ve heard about BDSM and kink is wrong? In this episode, we're busting the biggest Dom/sub myths holding people back—from feeling too inexperienced to thinking BDSM is immor...
10 Marras 202518min
What No One Admits About BDSM—But We Just Did
#110 BDSM isn’t just fantasy—it’s how real people grow. Alesandra and Deborah Kat get honest about living a D/s lifestyle: consent, safewords, limits, protocols, weekly check-ins, 24/7 dynamics, paren...
3 Marras 202545min
My 3 Must-Haves for Every BDSM Scene (True Story)
#109 What makes a BDSM scene truly work? We talk about limits all the time—but rarely about the things we actually need to feel connected, grounded, and fulfilled. In this episode, Alesandra opens up ...
27 Loka 202518min
Spirituality and BDSM: What No One Talks About
#108 Can BDSM be spiritual? In this episode, we're exploring the meditative and transformative side of power exchange — from subspace and Domspace to mindful rituals, breathwork, and spiritual afterca...
20 Loka 202519min
How Doms Build Confidence Before and During a Scene
#107 Worried your sub will see right through your nerves? In this coaching call replay, Alesandra and her Dom, Jay, share real-world advice on how Dominants build confidence before and during a scene—...
13 Loka 20259min
Chastity and Locktober: Everything You Need to Know
#106 Locktober isn’t just denial—it’s connection, power, and play. 🔒 Free Cheat Sheet to level up your submission: https://domsubliving.com/sub Learn what Locktober is, its meme roots, how to prep an...
6 Loka 202518min
Why I Have a Hard Limit on Electroplay — True Story
#105 People think masochists will try anything… but I’ve got hard limits too. In this episode, I share the story of why electroplay makes me cringe, what happened when my teen mistook a new gadget for...
29 Syys 202514min
