8 sex workers share what happened on their first day on the job. r/nsfw Podcast - Reddit NSFW Stories
Cheating17 Sep 2022

8 sex workers share what happened on their first day on the job. r/nsfw Podcast - Reddit NSFW Stories

8 sex workers share what happened on their first day on the job.

Like accountants, journalists or retail assistants, sex workers offer their services, in exchange for payment, and as with any other job, things like contentious clients, questionable bosses, and first day job jitters, are also commonplace.

Writing about their initial experiences on a recent Reddit thread, various sex workers from erotic text line operators, to escorts and strippers shared their first day on the job.

This is what they had to say.

1. “Getting partially naked in front of strangers for the first time is very unsettling.”
First day on the job stripping — I was 19 and worked in a very tiny club (used to call it my shoebox club) with a wobbly pole from Lowe’s that went through a gaping hole in the ceiling.

Had a panic attack in the dressing room before it was my turn to go on stage cause getting partially naked in front of strangers for the first time is very unsettling, and then came out to see people that I vaguely knew sitting by the tip rail (I used to live in a small city).

I had actually biked past them on the way to get there! Proceeded to awkwardly roll around on stage and accidentally kicked an ash tray off the tip rail at them. Not my finest hour haha.


2. “I got VERY lucky.”

I got VERY lucky. My first ever client was an attractive, middle aged man who lived in a huge and pristine house. After all was said and done, I divulged that he was my first client. He looked me in my eyes and said ‘you shouldn’t be doing this.’ I only did it for about six weeks.


3. “Much less than minimum wage.”

I once worked for a company where I would reply to explicit text messages. First day I thought it was really funny and kinda cool, I did it from home so I would tell my partner about some of the messages I would get. It was explained to me that I would handle several ‘profiles’ of women. I was sure the men knew it’s a fantasy line as the manager told me it was clear on their website. But she would not tell me what the name of that site was.

Anyway as time went on I realized that the Johns were texting what they thought were real women. They kept referring to it as a dating website. I kept getting general emails from my manager repeatedly to say we must always say we “liked the idea of meeting sometime” but never agree to it, and to keep saying we wanted to talk longer first to keep them replying for longer. Some of these men had been texting ‘one woman’ for YEARS, when in reality that profile could be handled by 20+ women a day.

Found out from one John that it was advertised as meet local singles for sex, and they had to spend £3 (AU$5.41) per message and were getting frustrated that the women never met up.

Edit: Lots of people asking about pay. It was £0.15p per message (AUD 27 cents). Even going as fast as I could it was much less than minimum wage per hour as I often had to read through the message history or look up info (e.g the John might ask what the weather was like where ‘she’ lived).



4. “Lasted only three days.”
At one point in my life when I lost my job and car I stripped (lasted only three days) and I remember my first day, technically night, like it was yesterday. I was very shy, awkward, clueless, desperate, and ashamed.

I never thought I would turn to dancing (stripping). After I danced the five stages, this [doctor] asked for a private dance. We go to the very back of the building where no one can see. So I’m dancing on him and then he asks could he insert his penis in me. I freaked out!!! I said NO! And he said “okay, can I jack off while you dance, I’ll give you $200”. I agreed, and a few seconds later, he jizzed in his pants…. they were khakis.

I made $250 in about three minutes. I was scarred, and was only able to dance two more nights before I realized I just couldn’t do it anymore.


5. “Sex work saved me.”
So, I started off doing erotic massage back when I was basically homeless and just couch surfing…, working any odd jobs I could find. I had no idea what I was doing, but I was living off stale food left forgotten in random peoples fridges, so I went for it.

I posted an ad on a website with a friend and within a few hours got an inquiry. I didn’t screen or take any precautions because I didn’t know any better, and in retrospect I was INCREDIBLY lucky. I was so nervous. I got all dressed up in the only halfway decent thing I owned.

I went to his hotel and when he opened the door my mouth nearly fell open. He was so fucking handsome and I was floored. He was a 30 something businessman from Iceland. He was absolutely delightful. He was charming, intelligent, immaculate, and funny. I had an amazing hour with him and walking away with what I normally could make in a week working my ass off at a shit cafe getting abused by rich customers who were fine with spending $7 on a latte but not tipping a single cent. The 180° change in my job status was shocking.

After that I started posting ads every day and was able to get an apartment and go back to school. I’m now at a great university and my life is wonderful. It’s been over five years and I’ve never been more grateful for anything in my life. Sex work saved me.



6. “He made it easy.”
I was very nervous. No one in my life knew I was going to work as a sex worker. The madam at the brothel knew it was my first time but she gave me very little useable advice. An older experienced SW told me what I needed to know to get through my first client.

My first client was a young man, he treated me well and the sex was vanilla. It wasn’t scary or anything. He made it easy. I think I had a few clients that night, I can’t remember.

Edit: The advice she gave me was about not telling the clients that it was my first time or that I was new in the industry. She said that the clients would immediately try to take advantage of that. She told me how to use lube to fake enjoyment, and that when I got my period I could still work I’d just need to wet a small sponge and use it as a tampon. She let me know the brothels that where the girls were so competitive that they’d sabotage your jobs, spread shut about you and cut the straps on your shoes. And most importantly she told me that even on your worst night the money would make it worth it.

7. “My coworker had to show me how to give a lap dance.”
I’m a dancer, my first day was kind of awkward but I think I got the hang of it quickly. I was interested in pole tricks before I started the job so I was pretty good at those already, but had no idea what to do for the actual dancing part.

My coworker had to show me how to give a lap dance lol. Talking to customers was also nerve-racking but I quickly learned to just ask questions and they would spend the rest of the conversation talking about themselves. It got easier once I developed a fun, confident persona that was separate from my actual everyday self (I usually have a lot of anxiety and body image issues).

I also learned some very effective ways to shut down creeps.


8. “My feet absolutely killed me.”
My first day stripping was terrifying. I wore off brand stripper shoes so my feet absolutely killed me. I was scared out of my mind to talk to people I was a nervous wreck. Luckily the girls at the club were nice and helped me figure out what to do.

I’m still stripping a year later and it’s pretty much second nature now I love it and I’m pretty good. I also do porn now and my first day doing that was addicting! I loved it I had so much fun it made me feel invincible.

Almost forgot to mention I’ve gotten to meet so many amazing people. All my close friends now are girls I met at the club. Everyone at the club is like a weird, f*cked up family.


8 sex workers share what happened on their first day on the job.

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In such a case, divorcing a cheating wife or husband might be a better option.What are the first signs of cheating?13 Subtle Signs of Cheating to Watch Out ForYour relationship started as an affair. ...They're taking out a lot of cash. ...They've suddenly got new sex moves. ...They're suddenly hyper-critical of you. ...Your typical relationship issues seem to disappear. ...They're paying more attention to their looks.Do cheaters feel guilty?While statistics show that around 68% of men feel guilty, the answer to this question often depends on the specific cheater. Not all cheaters may feel guilty after an affair or adultery, but many of them do.Whatever their reasons may be for cheating, your partner may still feel guilty afterward for betraying your trust or hurting your feelings. Keep in mind that feeling guilty isn’t enough of an apology.Even if they feel bad about what they’ve done, the only way to save the relationship is if the cheater is committed to understanding how hurtful their actions were, doesn’t offer excuses, and works towards regaining your trust. Remember that this might take a long time, and you may have to go to couples counseling.How should I confront my partner about cheating?We’ve covered how your partner may react to a confrontation above, but how do you go about having that conversation, to begin with? While it can depend on the specific situation, there’s a couple of critical steps you can follow for a more successful confrontation.Don’t make any rash decisionsWhen you first find out they’ve been cheating, your instinct may be to confront your partner and get to the bottom of things, but this isn’t always the best approach.Reacting out of anger and hurt can escalate the situation or make it hard to view things clearly. Try taking a few deep breaths, calm down for an hour, or even vent to an unbiased third party before you do anything.Evaluate the information you haveIf you’ve been cheated on previously, those trust issues can linger in a new relationship. Every time your partner comes home from work a little late or gains a new friend, alarm bells may be going off in your brain. Even if there’s no infidelity happening.Make sure you evaluate the information and proof you do have of their cheating. If your partner has never given you a reason to mistrust them and you’re just relying on a hunch, an angry confrontation could do more harm than good. If you do have hard proof they’ve cheated, you can use that in your argument.Figure out what you’d like from the conversationCome into the conversation with a purpose. Do you want to restore the relationship and forgive them, or do you want to cut ties and break up?Sometimes, the answer to this can depend on how your partner reacts to the accusation, but it’s still good to have a general idea of what you want.Pick a time and placeSet up a time for you and your partner to talk where you’ll be free of distractions like friends or kids. Don’t add any alcohol or drugs into the mix, and make sure you’ve calmed down enough to have a civil discussion.Listen and then make a planBring up the facts to your partner and listen to what they have to say. Make a plan on where to go from there. If they try to manipulate or gaslight you, you may want to cut ties immediately. If they apologize and repent for what they’ve done, you can then decide on whether or not you want to trust them again.How should I ask my partner if they are cheating?When you’re accusing your partner of cheating, pointing fingers and yelling can escalate the situation – but it can also make it easier for the cheater to manipulate the situation and twist the truth too. During the confrontation, you can raise your concerns without direct accusations. Maybe you tell them that you’ve noticed they’re deleting text messages or being secretive about their phone, and you’re concerned. If you have direct proof that they’ve cheated, bring up the facts or show the evidence, and then ask for an explanation.How do guilty cheaters act?While these signs don’t always mean they’re cheating, the behavior we’ve listed below can point towards a guilty cheater:They’re being secretive about their phone and keeping specific conversations private from youThey’ve suddenly improved their appearance, which can be a sign they’re trying to look attractive for a new personThey’ve had a sudden schedule change, and there are long hours where they’re preoccupied or unreachableThere’s a change in how much physical intimacy you and your partner haveThere are odd charges on your joint bank account that your partner can’t explainThey don’t seem willing or able to connect with you as they have in the past emotionallyThey’ve been spending a lot of time outside the house or having frequent “meetings” or unexplained absences YOUTUBE CHANNEL https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmzVtlgSaE-OPH0VE4S1miA/featuredCheating Wives Stories is a place where people can come to hear stories of wives or girlfriends cheating. Plus some good revenge on Cheat Wives and Girlfriends. These stories also serve to let people currently going through the heartbreak a place to come and know they ARE NOT ALONE.Marriage Is A Bad Investment!#infidelity #cheating #relationships #cheatingstoriesReligious Wife Wasn't Okay With My Gambling But Was Ok With Cheating On Me

29 Juni 202228min

Wife Confessed to Cheating with Best Man at Wedding.

Wife Confessed to Cheating with Best Man at Wedding.

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That said, you may want to gather other evidence before you confront your significant other about their behavior. Common signs of infidelity that you might want to look for include:1. Improved appearance. If your significant other suddenly starts exercising and eating healthier, that could be a sign that they are trying to appear more attractive to someone (possibly you, but possibly an affair partner). If Mr. Sweatpants-Are-Just-Fine-at-a-Party starts wearing slacks with matching socks and a fashionable shirt, or Ms. I-Can’t-Help-It-If-I-Smell-Like-Our-Son’s-Poopy-Diapers suddenly smells like Chanel No. 5, that may indicate an affair. Ditto for a new haircut and new underwear — especially if your significant other looks the same around you, but significantly better for work or certain social events.2. Secretive phone or computer use. Cheaters tend to use their phones and computers more frequently than before and to guard them as if their lives depend on it. If your partner’s phone and laptop never required a password before, and now they do, that’s not a good sign. If your partner suddenly starts deleting texts and clearing their browser history on a daily basis, that’s not a good sign. If your partner never relinquishes possession of their phone, even taking it into the bathroom when they shower, that’s not a good sign. If you ask to review your partner’s phone, and they say no, that’s also a problem. Honestly, what could possibly be there — other than information about your surprise birthday — that they would want to keep secret?3. Periods where your significant other is unreachable. If your partner is cheating on you, they are less likely to answer your calls and respond to your texts. You may hear legitimate-sounding excuses like they were in a meeting, they were driving, they were in a “dead zone” and didn’t know you were trying to get in touch. If your partner is unreachable while working late or on a business trip, that’s a bad sign.4. Significantly less, or more, or different sex in your relationship. Both decreased and increased levels of sexual activity in your relationship can be a sign of infidelity. Less sex occurs because your partner is focused on someone else; more sex occurs because they are trying to cover that up. Another possible sign of cheating is that the sex you and your partner are having feels less emotionally connected. Yet another possible sign is that your partner is introducing new techniques and activities into your sex life. As much as you might enjoy that, it’s possible that they are learning new tricks outside of your relationship. 5. Your partner is hostile toward you and your relationship. Cheaters tend to rationalize their behavior (in their own minds). One way they do this is to push the blame onto you. They tell themselves that you don’t look the way you did when they married you, or you’re not adventurous enough in the bedroom, or you don’t appreciate all the wonderful things they do for you, so they deserve to have a little fun elsewhere. Often, their internal justifications for cheating leak out, and they behave judgmentally toward you and your relationship. If it suddenly seems like nothing you do is right, or that things that used to not bother your partner suddenly do, or as if you’re getting pushed away, that could be a strong indication of cheating6. An altered schedule. When your significant other — who never once worked late — suddenly needs to work late, and that starts to happen more and more frequently, they may be lying. If your spouse has never been away on a business trip and suddenly finds a need to travel for work, that could be a sign that they are having weekend getaways with an affair partner. Flat tires, dead batteries, traffic jams, spending extra time at the gym, and similar excuses for being late or absent altogether might also signal infidelity. A cheating partner might also suddenly be forgetful about picking up the kids, birthdays and other important events, etc. 7. Friends seem uncomfortable around you. With infidelity, you, the betrayed partner, are nearly always the last person to find out. The cheater’s friends often know about the infidelity right from the start, and your own friends are likely to find out long before you do. This knowledge typically causes these individuals to feel uncomfortable around you. The cheater’s friends might try to avoid you or to be overly nice to you. Your own friends may try to avoid conversations about your relationship, and they might overcompensate by being extra nice. 8. Unexplained expenses. If there are odd charges on your partner’s credit cards, or there is suddenly less money in your or your partner’s bank accounts, retirement accounts, investment accounts, etc., that’s a possible sign of infidelity. If you ask your partner about these expenses, and their answers seem untrue, it’s likely that they are untrue. Infidelity costs money: gifts, trips, wine and dinners, hotel rooms, etc. The costs of cheating can add up very quickly. If you see large cash withdrawals or evidence of purchases from places you rarely or never frequent, that’s not a good sign. 9. Emotional intimacy has faded. After a few years, no relationship is as intense as it was in the first few months. That said, we do tend to bond and to securely attach over time, learning to trust one another with our secrets, our desires, and other important aspects of our lives. That process is known as building emotional intimacy. And emotional intimacy is what keeps us bonded to our significant other long after the bloom is off the rose, so to speak. So, if your partner suddenly seems less emotionally vulnerable and intimate with you and does not seem to want you to be emotionally vulnerable and intimate, that’s a strong indication that their focus has shifted — most likely to an affair partner. 10. When you ask about cheating, your partner deflects and avoids. If your spouse is cheating on you, the absolute last thing in the world that they want to do is talk about it with you. So when you introduce this topic in conversation, they may try to deflect and avoid. In short, your partner will do everything possible to steer you onto another topic, or they will shift blame for what you’re thinking and feeling onto you. If you’ve confronted your partner about infidelity and been rebuffed, maybe with a message like, “If you trusted me a little more, maybe things would be better between us,” you should not let that override your gut sense that something is wrong in your relationship. Nor should you automatically accept your partner’s assertion that you are at fault. As stated earlier, if your gut tells you that your significant other is cheating on you, you’re probably right.Please note: Your significant other could display all 10 of these signs and still not be cheating. But these remain indications that something is wrong in their life and/or your relationship. It might not be cheating, but there is almost certainly something that you and your significant other to talk about. At the same time, your mate could be exhibiting none of these ten signs and still be cheating. Either way, the good news is that learning about infidelity does not automatically signal the end of your relationship. It simply means your partner has a lot of work to do if they want to restore relationship trust, make things right, and re-establish emotional and sexual intimacy.If you learn that your partner has cheated on you, I strongly suggest that you not sit alone with that information. If you don’t feel comfortable confronting your partner, talk to a trusted friend, your pastor, or a therapist. Just don’t sit there alone with your fears and feelings. Reach out and find empathetic support. #surviving #reddit #infidelityrelationshipsreddit relationshipsr/relationship storiesrelationship storiesrelationship strugglesreddit relationship storiesrelationshipr/relationshipr/cheating_storiescheatingcheating storiesreddit cheatingcheating redditcheating wifereddit cheating storiesstories cheatingreddit breakupscheater wifecheating girlfriendcheaterr/survivinginfidelityr/infidelityInfidelityreddit regrets,reddit relationships regrets,reddit regret breakup,reddit regret,reddit regret stories,regret stories reddit,reddit stories regret,r/regrets,reddit divorce stories,reddit divorce revenge,reddit divorced,reddit divorce lawyer stories,nasty divorce reddit,reddit marriage stories,marriage,divorce,break ups,regrets,cheating,wife,reddit cheating,r/divorce,reddit divorce,break ups videos,breakup compilations,infidelity in marriage,confessions

28 Juni 202217min

My Girlfriend Cheated On Me Sooo.. In Revenge. I Let Her Catch Me With Her Mom In the Kitchen

My Girlfriend Cheated On Me Sooo.. In Revenge. I Let Her Catch Me With Her Mom In the Kitchen

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