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EJ and Tarah Kerwin dive into the power of their Emotional Safety Assessment—a free tool now available on their website. They openly model the entire process, walking through all 13 questions and sharing their honest scores and reflections. Listeners will get a behind-the-scenes look at how the hosts use this assessment both personally and with the couples they coach, highlighting its ability to reveal strengths and pinpoint areas needing attention. With real-life examples, self-awareness, and moments of humor, EJ and Tarah demonstrate how understanding your individual and shared emotional safety is the foundation for deeper intimacy and connection.

This episode is a must-listen for couples seeking practical, actionable ways to improve relationship closeness and trust. Whether you’re wondering how emotionally safe your partnership feels or seeking new tools for growth, EJ and Tarah guide you through using the assessment and interpreting its results—without judgment or resorting to blame. Discover what emotional safety really means, why it matters, and how couples at any stage can move from surviving to thriving. Tune in for vulnerable storytelling, expert insights, and the inspiration you need to start your own path to a more connected, emotionally safe relationship.

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