Perfectionist's and People Pleasers listen in

Perfectionist's and People Pleasers listen in

A lot of the women that I work with identify as a perfectionist and/or a people pleaser.


And I cringe when they say those words.


I also do a little happy dance because it's a key piece of the puzzle as to why they are stuck, why no matter how much motivation they have, they just can't seam to change their ways.


In this episode I delve into how to change your behaviours and actions which aren't serving you and aren't in alignment with your goals by using these four tips.


- Removing the perfectionism and people pleasing from your identity.

- Working on your people pleasing tendencies by setting, communicating and enforcing boundaries.

- Lowering your expectations by complimenting yourself.

- Knowing that the grey is where the magic happens, not the black and white which you currently operate in.


I delve deep into these and explain the why behind them.


If you would like the boundary setting document please send me a DM on social media and I'll send it over.


Thanks for listening.





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