33. The Rider, the Elephant, and the Path: How Change Happens

33. The Rider, the Elephant, and the Path: How Change Happens

Ever feel like part of you wants to drink less, but another part of you grabs the wine anyway? You’re not weak. You’re not broken. And you’re definitely not alone. In this episode, I’m sharing one of the most powerful metaphors I’ve ever come across for understanding habit change: the elephant, the rider, and the path. Originally introduced by psychologist Jonathan Haidt and popularized by Chip and Dan Heath in their book Switch, this framework explains why willpower alone never feels like en...

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75. Stop Telling Yourself You Can't Drink

75. Stop Telling Yourself You Can't Drink

What if telling yourself “I can’t drink” is actually making alcohol more desirable? When alcohol feels forbidden, not drinking can start to feel like deprivation. But the truth is, you can drink. The ...

3 Sep 12min

74. What Are You Practicing When You Drink?

74. What Are You Practicing When You Drink?

Every time you drink, you're practicing something. Drink after a stressful day—you're practicing using alcohol to escape stress. Drink because everyone else is drinking—you're practicing letting the g...

27 Aug 11min

73. Do This to Stay Sober Tonight

73. Do This to Stay Sober Tonight

Are you trying not to drink tonight? Don't make it harder by worrying about whether you'll drink at Christmas, on your next vacation, or for the rest of your life. Your only job right now is to figure...

20 Aug 14min

72. You Don't Actually Want Alcohol

72. You Don't Actually Want Alcohol

What if the craving you're feeling isn't actually for alcohol? In this episode, I challenge one of the biggest assumptions we make about drinking: that when we think "I need a drink," what we really w...

13 Aug 13min

71. "Why Can't I Stop at One Drink?" [Listener Q&A]

71. "Why Can't I Stop at One Drink?" [Listener Q&A]

Have you ever promised yourself you'd only have one drink... and then found yourself pouring a second, a third, or finishing the whole bottle? You're not alone. In this episode, I explain why stopping...

6 Aug 13min

70. Make It Easy to Say No to the Drink

70. Make It Easy to Say No to the Drink

Do you ever feel like you're relying on sheer willpower to get through the evening without drinking? What if the problem isn't that you need more self-control... but that you're making the decision mu...

30 Juli 13min

69. Nonalcoholic Drinks: Helpful Replacement or Slippery Slope?

69. Nonalcoholic Drinks: Helpful Replacement or Slippery Slope?

Are nonalcoholic drinks keeping you hooked, or can they actually help you stay sober? In this episode, I answer one of the questions I get asked constantly: Are non-alcoholic drinks okay to rely on or...

23 Juli 19min

68. How to Break the “I’ll Start Tomorrow” Cycle [Listener Q&A]

68. How to Break the “I’ll Start Tomorrow” Cycle [Listener Q&A]

Do you wake up determined not to drink... only to reach 6 p.m. and think, "I'll just have a drink tonight, but I definitely won't drink tomorrow"? If that cycle feels painfully familiar, this episode ...

16 Juli 12min

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