ManTalks Podcast19 Sep 2021

Dr. Benjamin Hardy - How Do You Really Measure Success?

It often feels like there is a massive gap between where we are and where we want to be. What’s more, we can spend so much time working to GET somewhere that we lose sight of what we’ve gained along the way. This is what organizational psychologist Dr. Benjamin Hardy and I dove into this episode. I loved this conversation, and I’m thrilled to share it with you, so don’t forget to spread it around.

Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist and bestselling author of Willpower Doesn’t Work, Personality Isn't Permanent, and most recently, The Gap And The Gain.

He is a prolific blog writer, and his work has been read by over 100 million people, and featured on Harvard Business Review, New York Times, Forbes, Fortune, CNBC, Cheddar, and others. He is a regular contributor to Inc. and Psychology Today, and from 2015-2018, he was the #1 writer in the world on Medium.com.

He and his wife Lauren adopted three children through the foster system in February 2018 and, one month later, Lauren became pregnant with twins, who were born in December of 2018. They live in Orlando.

Connect with Ben

-Website: https://benjaminhardy.com/

-Articles: https://benjaminhardy.com/articles/

-Book: The Gap And The Gain:

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/benjaminhardy88/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/benjamin_hardy_phd/

-LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminhardy88/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/BenjaminPHardy

-Book: The Gap And The Gain: https://amzn.to/3zodzxS

-Book: Personality Isn’t Permanent: https://amzn.to/3zodzxS

-Book: Willpower Doesn’t Work: https://amzn.to/3AoEg6N

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