190: My Simple 3 Step Framework to Resolving Triggers and Ending Relapse Cycles For Good
Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction3 Apr 2025

190: My Simple 3 Step Framework to Resolving Triggers and Ending Relapse Cycles For Good

In this episode, I'll show you my easy three-step plan to help you stop watching porn for good.

Many people think they just need to try harder to resist urges or avoid things that trigger them. But fighting these urges all the time is exhausting, and you're always worried about slipping up again.

I want to teach you a better way.

Instead of just fighting urges, we can find out why they happen in the first place and fix that problem.

As a therapist, I've helped hundreds of men on their journey to quit pornography. The ones who stay free for years are those who use this simple plan.

Today you'll learn:

  • Why fighting urges doesn't work (and it's not your fault)
  • My three steps that get to the real cause of the problem
  • Tools you can start using today

This isn't about using more willpower. It's about understanding that urges are like messages telling you what really needs healing in your life.

You can find real freedom without having to fight against yourself every day.

For therapy with Sam:

I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and resolve the root cause so it doesn't come back.

If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully overcome it, I’ll work with you for free until you do.

Click here for info to work with me directly.

Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes?

Email me here:

sam@healingcouples.org

Get access to my trust building workshop:

Rebuild Trust Workshop

Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

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263: He Says His Pornography Urges Are Gone. How Can She Trust That? And What Can You Both Do If She Doesn’t?

263: He Says His Pornography Urges Are Gone. How Can She Trust That? And What Can You Both Do If She Doesn’t?

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

3 Sep 25min

262: If You're Slipping Every Few Weeks or Months, Here's Exactly How to Stop It

262: If You're Slipping Every Few Weeks or Months, Here's Exactly How to Stop It

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

27 Aug 18min

261: Live Session – Breaking Belief of Not Being Good Enough (in 22 minutes)

261: Live Session – Breaking Belief of Not Being Good Enough (in 22 minutes)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

20 Aug 21min

260: Don't Do Busy Work to Quit Porn and Rebuild Your Marriage, Do Targeted Work. Here's How

260: Don't Do Busy Work to Quit Porn and Rebuild Your Marriage, Do Targeted Work. Here's How

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

13 Aug 22min

259: How Could He Love Me and Betray Me at the Same Time?

259: How Could He Love Me and Betray Me at the Same Time?

One of the most painful questions after discovering pornography addiction is this: "If he really loved me, how could he do this?" For many wives, the discovery of porn addiction doesn't just change th...

6 Aug 18min

258: 5 Strategies to Overcome Urges For Pornography That Won't Go Away

258: 5 Strategies to Overcome Urges For Pornography That Won't Go Away

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

30 Juli 14min

257: When She's Afraid That Sharing Her Feelings Will Trigger Him to Relapse

257: When She's Afraid That Sharing Her Feelings Will Trigger Him to Relapse

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

23 Juli 17min

256: 5 Habits (60 seconds each) To Help you Quit Porn in 2026

256: 5 Habits (60 seconds each) To Help you Quit Porn in 2026

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

16 Juli 13min

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