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Eva Oh Revisits an adventurous journey through Tokyo's kink scene, discovering the city's unique take on sex, modesty, and voyeurism. From erotic shower shows to theatrical shibari and BDSM hostess bars, uncover the hidden stories and personal anecdotes of Tokyo's sexual tapestry. By the end, you’ll have heard stories about Eva’s friendships, an tattoo’d submissive with an amusing relationship with pain, and what she plans to do next in Japan as a tourist.More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:19) Revisiting Japanese Kink(2:12) The Mystique of Soap Bars(4:28) Shopping Kink Tools(06:37) Eroticism and Camp Within Japan's Shibari Scene(10:37) Sisters in Kink: Chiaki, Hinako, and Suzy Q(15:55) Stepping into BDSM Hostess Bars(18:51) Bodies, Pain, and Tattoos(19:29) No Pain, No Pain, No Pain(22:02) Ginger Cookies, Drinks, and Sushi in Rope Bars(23:11) Japan Without Speaking Japanese(24:26) Reflections(27:28) Away From Kink, Onto Local Vanilla Preferences(29:05) Repression and Conservatism(30:06) What to do in Japan Next Time?

5 Dec 202332min

You’ve witnessed my dating successes, and now, I’ll dissect my former toxic relationship that was entrenched in the strange world of celebrity culture. It all starts in the dimly lit Thai restaurant located across my former apartment. Unbenounst to me, the minute I locked eyes with my date, the man, the enigma, who would trigger the emotional rollercoaster that ultimately became my life. Our relationship was defined by deception, gaslighting, and misogyny. This is the story about a relationship that chipped away at my confidence and trust, and how I overcame it. 
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:15) - My Worst Relationship? How We Met(07:30) - Joining the Band on Tour, Sort of(08:40) - I Move to London to be Together, He Reveals a Secret(10:50) - I Find Out More Secrets(12:15) - My First Experience with Gaslighting(14:20) - I Stay, and Follow Him Around the World(17:00) - Feeling Misunderstood(18:00) - Why I Share This(21:00) - How Meditation Played a Part(22:30) - Understanding Celebrity Culture(23:40) - A Revelation at the MTV Awards(25:50) - His Accusations(28:15) - More Red Flags(29:00) - He Starts to Denounce My Work, after being supportive initially(32:10) - Misogyny at Fuji Rock Festival, the Brit Awards...(36:40) - Ed Sheeran Saving the Day?(38:40) - How it Slowly and Painfully Ended

28 Nov 202343min

Let's unpack the intricacies of dating as a Dominatrix! It’s been a ride filled with thrills, dangers, self-discovery, and power. I start with recollection about when my newfound dominance found an eager partner I wasn't quite ready for. That story leads into my debatable luck on dating sites before pre-dating apps existed, my discovering the swinger community, what it’s like developing crushes on clients, and ultimately, you’ll see how how my dating habits today are influenced by the hard lessons I learned on the way. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Separating the Work and Dating Headspaces (02:00) - The Early Days of Dating as a Dominatrix (04:45) - "Derrick", My First Attempt (06:55) - My First Mistake (10:00) - My Luck(?) on Dating Sites (12:40) - How I 'Explained' What I Did for Work (15:55) - Sex-Positive Dating Sites and Associated Adventures (22:25) - Loneliness (23:40) - Crushes on Clients (26:10) - My First Long-term Partner as a Dominatrix, it was bad (27:44) - What I Learned from the Bad Experience (28:00) - How I Date Now

21 Nov 202336min

Can you recall the terrorizing thrill of a teacher reprimanding you in front of the whole class, the sensation of your heart pounding in your ears, your cheeks burning from embarrassment? Good. Now, imagine someone voluntarily seeking that thrill, craving it. This episode, I’ll explain how I incorporate humiliation in my practice as a Dominatrix, as I breakdown why humiliation is so popular amongst submissives, and the different ways people engage with that emotion. I’ll also provide insights from my unique approach to domination, and how I use humiliation to potentially shatter individuals' self-perceptions. Experience the unexpected as I share personal experiences, including instances where I humiliate clients about their small penises at dungeons and nude beaches. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Welcome to My Sofa (01:00) - An Introduction to the Humiliation Kink (02:40) - Why is Humiliation So Popular, Societal Shame (05:40) - How to Use Humiliation, Taking Care (06:50) - My First Humiliation Session, Small Penis Humiliation (11:55) - Why is Small Penis Humiliation is Popular, Feelings of Inadequacy in the Pressures of Expectation in Society (15:45) - A Humiliation Session at the Nude Beach (21:45) - Why I Enjoy Humiliation, and How I Integrate It

14 Nov 202324min

The Season Finale! It’s been a raw ride of experiences, emotions, and lessons learned and I shared much more with you than I bargained for. Do I regret it? In this season finale I reminisce over what I’ve revealed - my turning into an AI, my sex party adventures, encounters with clients gone wrong and more… It’s been challenging but I hope my life's insights and my world have spoken to you, or at least inspired a little joy. Shall I do another season? More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - How I Created the Podcast This Season (01:30) - Which Episodes Were Tough! (02:10) - What Did I Want From It? (03:00) - Leaving a Rating Really Helps! Thank you (03:15) - Why I Started This Podcast (04:50) - What Surprised Me (06:10) - Vulnerability and Community Support (07:58) - A Fun Opportunity to Investigate My Own Mind (09:40) - Major Motivations (10:40) - A Reflection on the ‘Arsehole Tax’ Episode and Money (13:15) - Getting to Share My History (14:20) - How Should I Move Forward? (15:30) - The Risks (18:10) - Thank You for Listening. See You Next Season?

7 Nov 202318min

What if the key to attracting wealth, in all its forms, is contentment rather than raw manipulation? In this episode I open up on what I've learned about honesty, assertiveness, observation and communication - to get what I want. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Mind Tricks (01:15) - My Own Mind (02:10) - Contentment as a Tool, Over Ourselves and Others? (05:05) - My Values (07:30) - How My Family Factors In (09:20) - I Have What I Want (10:15) - People Are Drawn In (10:35) - How Being A Dominatrix Has Added To My Success (11:32) - How My Skills (With Manipulation?) Could Be Problematic (12:10) - Being Observant and Not Judging Too Soon (13:00) - Breakdown of the Ego Can Lead to Generosity (14:00) - Centring My Pleasure, with Less Attachment (15:40) - Understanding What You Actually Want (16:55) - Pandering to Ego as a Tactic? (19:25) - Figuring Out How My Assertiveness Fits in the World (21:15) - Bringing the Skills of the Dungeon into My Daily Life (22:25) - A Recap (24:35) - Choosing When to Use My Skills (25:55) - A Reflection on the #teakink Podcast

31 Okt 202326min

Can moving to a tropical paradise truly transform your life? I found myself drawn to Bali after a period of burnout, yearning for a slower rhythm amidst nature. I would travel overseas to see my clients and communities once a month. But my idyllic existence quickly gave way to a harsher reality when borders shut for COVID, and I filled the gap by launching myself into the local expat community. Venture with me as I discover a realm of sex coaches and their tantric swinger nights, lost start up founders and their cold plunges and a healthy mass of the generally dysfunctional. I also land myself in the midst of corruption, theft and a growing awareness of the injustice that underpins the islands existence; and spoiler alert, I eventually leave to find a kink community that satisfies what I am looking for, for now… More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:15) - Why Bali? (01:35) - My Jungle Home (03:05) - Healing a Burnout (04:00) - Naivety Against Corruption and Wealth Inequality (05:50) - Moving to Canggu (08:02) - The Exoticisation of the Other (09:00) - Running Away (10:15) - Misogyny and Safety (11:05) - Corruption (12:05) - Dysfunction (14:20) - The Bali Kink Community (16:25) - The London Kink Community (17:05) - What is a Life Coach? (17:50) - Sex Coaches (18:50) - Tantric Temple Swinger Nights (19:50) - Loneliness and Cold Plunges (20:10) - Start-up Founders and Finding Themselves (24:00) - Discovering What I Actually Needed (28:00) - I Just Want to Fit In?

24 Okt 202330min

For years, I lived a double life. My conservative, Christian mother knew nothing of my profession as a Dominatrix until a revelation seven years in the making unfolded, with surprising results. In this candid, personal episode, I share about the fear, the tension, and ultimately the liberation that came with breaking my silence. I explore the delicate dance of withholding the truth, the strain it put on my relationship with my mother, and the unexpected acceptance that emerged. Disclaimer: Some long pauses towards the end due to tears :) More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Coming Out to Mum About Being a Dominatrix (01:35) - Bible Study, Christianity, Conservatism (03:55) - Hiding My Job and What it Did to Our Relationship (04:40) - Why Did I Tell Her After 7 Years? (05:30) - Sex Worker Friendly Therapy (07:15) - Planning the Coming Out (08:30) - Executing the Plan, Not As Expected (10:04) - Mum’s Questions About the Job (12:15) - My Answers (16:16) - My Mother’s Insight, Humour and Compassion (20:15) - How The Coming Out Settled

17 Okt 202321min