The Neurodivergent Experience18 Sep 2025

Hot Topic: “But You Don’t Look Autistic”

In this week’s Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott unpack a powerful story about a photography exhibition in South Wales titled “But You Don’t Look Autistic.”

The exhibition, featuring portraits of autistic children and adults, challenges stereotypes about what autism “should” look like and celebrates unapologetic neurodivergent pride. From purple beards and rubber ducks to teenage voices demanding respect, the project pushes back against patronising attitudes and harmful misconceptions.

Jordan and Simon bring their lived experiences into the conversation, reflecting on:

Why the phrase “you don’t look autistic” is so damaging (even when meant kindly)
The role of art, photography, and visibility in changing perceptions
Everyday examples of condescension and infantilization faced by autistic adults
The need for neurodivergent pride and representation over awareness campaigns
Stories of ableism—from airports to festivals—that highlight how disability is still misunderstood
Why invisible disabilities matter, and how assumptions harm neurodivergent people

Read the article here.

This episode blends humour, frustration, and hope—spotlighting the importance of representation and the freedom to be unapologetically neurodivergent.

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