How To Stop Worrying About What People Think Of You | Michael Gervais

How To Stop Worrying About What People Think Of You | Michael Gervais

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.

---

Why fear of other people's opinions (FOPO) holds us back, and what to do about it.

Michael Gervais is a high performance psychologist and the host of the Finding Mastery podcast. His new book is called The First Rule of Mastery: Stop Worrying About What People Think of You.


In this episode we talk about:

  • A handy new acronym: FOPO, Fear of People's Opinions
  • How the evolutionary roots of our desire for social acceptance work against us in the modern world
  • Why caring about what others think is not the same thing as worrying about what others think
  • The difference between a purpose-based identity and a performance-based identity
  • The anti-FOPO power of things like: imagination, journaling, meditation, social support, and considering your mortality
  • Why focusing less on yourself can be the greatest bulwark against FOPO


Related Episodes:


Sign up for Dan's weekly newsletter here

Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok

Ten Percent Happier online bookstore

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel

Our favorite playlists on: Anxiety, Sleep, Relationships, Most Popular Episodes


Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/michael-gervais-returns

Avsnitt(1032)

A Reformed Skeptic Leads A Loving-Kindness Meditation | A Meditation Party Retreat Bonus with Dan Harris

A Reformed Skeptic Leads A Loving-Kindness Meditation | A Meditation Party Retreat Bonus with Dan Harris

Recorded live at the Omega Institute, Dan leads us through a loving-kindness meditation, followed by discussion with retreat co-leaders Jeff Warren and Sebene Selassie. For more information on the ne...

15 Sep 202426min

Natasha Rothwell (White Lotus, How To Die Alone) On: Loneliness, Envy, People Pleasing, And Finding Your "Hell Yes"

Natasha Rothwell (White Lotus, How To Die Alone) On: Loneliness, Envy, People Pleasing, And Finding Your "Hell Yes"

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- Natasha Rothwell created, executive produced, and stars in the highly anticip...

13 Sep 20241h 2min

I Just Did A 10-Day Silent Meditation Retreat With Joseph Goldstein. Here's What I Learned

I Just Did A 10-Day Silent Meditation Retreat With Joseph Goldstein. Here's What I Learned

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- Meditation retreats are the object of much intrigue and even suspicion. So to...

11 Sep 20241h 18min

I Just Went Through A Career Earthquake. Here's What I Learned About Anger, Insomnia, And Bouncing Back | Dan Harris

I Just Went Through A Career Earthquake. Here's What I Learned About Anger, Insomnia, And Bouncing Back | Dan Harris

In which Dan gets candid about a major life struggle, the practical takeaways, and a big new project. In this episode: Dan shares news about what's next for him His strategies and lessons from a big...

10 Sep 202434min

Modern Life Numbs You. Here's The Neuroscience Of Waking Up | Tali Sharot

Modern Life Numbs You. Here's The Neuroscience Of Waking Up | Tali Sharot

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- It's so easy, especially these days, to numb out. To get bored. To move throu...

9 Sep 202449min

How to Avoid the Toilet Vortex of Anxiety | Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren

How to Avoid the Toilet Vortex of Anxiety | Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- We also talk about: whether it is possible to be a failed meditator; grief ve...

6 Sep 20241h 1min

Exploring What It Means To "Pay Attention" | A Meditation Party Retreat Bonus With Jeff Warren

Exploring What It Means To "Pay Attention" | A Meditation Party Retreat Bonus With Jeff Warren

Recorded live at the Omega Institute, Jeff guides us through two different approaches to being attentive to our experience — followed by a discussion with Dan and Sebene. About Jeff Warren: Jeff mak...

6 Sep 202444min

How And Why To Avoid The Siren Call Of Cynicism | Dr. Jamil Zaki

How And Why To Avoid The Siren Call Of Cynicism | Dr. Jamil Zaki

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- This Stanford psychologist has evidence that being a cynic is bad for your he...

2 Sep 20241h 13min

Populärt inom Hälsa

somna-med-henrik
rss-bara-en-till-om-missbruk-medberoende-2
rss-jossan-nina
inga-beiga-morsor
angestpodden
rss-vuxna-pa-latsas
not-fanny-anymore
sexnoveller-deluxe
rss-viktmedicinpodden
johannes-hansen-podcast
sova-med-dan-horning
rss-the-house-podcast-3
rss-sjalsligt-avkladd
sa-in-i-sjalen
sag-det-bara
brottarbroder
rss-angra-inget-3
sex-pa-riktigt-med-marika-smith
tyngre-radio
rss-fet-fakta-podcast