12. I Married Him Because I Was A People Pleaser
Left to my own flawed human thinking and emotions plus the people pleasing tendency to not want to disappoint anyone ... well, I got married for the wrong reasons. Yes, I was "young and dumb" and "di...
8 Apr 8min
11. What Are You Going To Be When You Grow Up?
Isn't it crazy that at the young age of high school graduation you have a major question to answer, "what are you going to be when you grow up?" How well do we really know ourselves at that age. And...
1 Apr 8min
10. Why You Feel Invisible In Your Relationships
We long to be seen, known, and loved which is met in God's unconditional love. We seek the same knowing and love from our inner circle. Yet, we sabotage that desire by keeping our true selves hidden...
25 Mars 10min
9. What's Your Body Trying To Tell You?
If willpower was what we needed to stop people pleasing, then we'd all be cured. However, our people pleasing problem is rooted in our biology, our nervous system, and our belief system about safety ...
18 Mars 6min
8. Are You Normalizing Dysfunction?
When we stay silent and tolerate negative behaviors we may be NORMALIZING DYSFUNCTION! This episode discusses 2 costs of staying silent for the sake of staying safe instead of facing our fears rooted...
11 Mars 9min
7. Nice Girl, Hidden Agenda
People Pleasing looks 👀 nice, but usually isn't.... it's usually strategic. There's typically a hidden agenda under that appeasing and over giving that makes us "feel" safe. Despite being created ...
4 Mars 12min
6. Why Your "NO" Feels Scary -- And What To Do Next
Big feelings like FEAR, GUILT, DOUBT, and ANXIETY come up when we disrupt the People Pleasing habit. Those feelings can have us back tracking into people pleasing if we aren't expecting them and we d...
25 Feb 13min
5. The Fears That Keep People Pleasing Alive
What would your life look like if it stopped revolving around keeping everyone else happy? And here’s how I define the people pleasing habit: People pleasing is when you prioritize making others happ...
18 Feb 17min
