Handing the Shame Back

This blog offers some ideas to consider around forgiving others. One powerful thought behind forgiveness, is that the only person that can free us from this dilemma is ourselves!. Self love growing th...

15 Sep 20226min

Our panel discussion this month focuses on the dreadful numbers of young people who have taken their own lives, and the staggering statistics that exist around this. WE also look at ways we can help o...

13 Sep 202258min

Chantelle and I discuss the topic of forgiving your abuser and how this huge decision is personal and unique to the survivor and therefore remain their choice. Always. We are on all social media platf...

12 Sep 202249min

On Handing the Shame Back YouTube Channel this week: A look at forgiveness, a very complex issue and one not to be hurried. A panel discussion on effective ways to support both male and female survivo...

12 Sep 20221min

Shame is well known to survivors of child sexual abuse, I consider it to be the most significant symptom we carry. Have a listen as to how you can begin to manage it in your life. We are on all socia...

7 Sep 20225min

Stephan and I discuss topics ranging from the Keeping ourselves safe programme run by NZ Police to homeless people and why that might be. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www....

30 Aug 202253min

Feeling different is well known to survivors of child sexual abuse (CSA) What happened to us felt wrong, thereby ensuring we stood apart from others. In that reality, how on earth could we feel normal...

30 Aug 20225min

Sometimes as Survivors we 'apologise' too much. Why do we do that? Have a listen as to how you can support your loved survivor into changing this. #csa #survivor We are on all social media platforms:...

29 Aug 20221min