Why Narcissists Lie and Keep Secrets: Shame and the False Self- part 1 | Epi 128
In this episode, we explore why secrecy in narcissism isn’t primarily about manipulation or control, but about survival. We look at how shame, fear of exposure, and the need to protect a fragile false...
11 Feb 19min
Narcissistic vs. Borderline Rage: What’s the Real Difference? | Epi 127
In this behind-the-scenes episode, we delve into the complexities of narcissistic and borderline personalities, focusing on the inner emotional worlds of these individuals. Key concepts are reviewed, ...
7 Feb 28min
Why Arguing With a Narcissist Never Works - and What Helps | Epi 126
In this conversation, Gordon Brewer and I meet up again on his channel to explore what actually creates movement in narcissistic relationships—especially when traditional approaches like arguing, expl...
4 Feb 26min
Borderline vs Narcissistic Personality: Behind the Scenes | Epi 125
In this behind-the-scenes episode, I take you inside my clinical thinking as I explore how the same behaviors—withdrawal, silence, or disengagement—can signal very different dynamics in narcissistic v...
31 Jan 25min
Are You Losing Yourself in a Narcissistic Relationship? What It Really Means |Epi 124
In this conversation, Gordon Brewer and I delve into the complexities of narcissistic dynamics in relationships. We explore how these dynamics manifest, the power imbalances involved, and the challeng...
28 Jan 30min
Why Relationships Feel So Intense with Borderline Traits: Behind the Scenes | Epi 123
In this behind-the-scenes episode, I take you inside my clinical thinking as I explore what actually drives borderline emotional dysregulation. We look at how failures in internal holding and object c...
24 Jan 24min
Was Any of It Real? Untangling the Illusion After Narcissistic Abuse | Epi 122
In this episode, we go deep into the psychological aftermath of narcissistic abuse—where idealization turns into confusion, connection becomes captivity, and the question “Was any of it real?” becomes...
21 Jan 24min
What does BPD mean? How Do I Know if Someone is Borderline? Behind the Scenes | Epi 119
In this behind-the-scenes episode, we explore what “borderline” really means beneath the chaos — diving into object constancy, the fragile inner world shaped by early deprivation, and why emotions can...
17 Jan 24min
