Extrem Focus on BPD Ex Increases Distress Drives More Focus On Ex - Dangerous and Painful
For most people after being ghosted or discarded by a Borderline or Narcissist Exrumination is central and very painful. For those also with Limerence this focus on the Ex can be even more intense. Th...
18 Dec 202224min
BPD Hoovers Are About The Borderline Not You
BPD hoovers are about the borderline - not you. People with Borderline Personalitydo not consider your needs or feelings when they hoover. They are as usual onlythinking about themselves and their wan...
18 Dec 202222min
Borderline Emotional and Communication Deficits 7 Signs You Are Relating to a Borderline
7 Signs that you are relating to a person with Borderline Personality who may not bediagnosed or if diagnosed hasn't disclosed that to you. These 7 signs are more nuanced to emotional instability and ...
18 Dec 202218min
Borderline and Codependent Denial - The BPD "We" & The Codependent "They"
Borderlines and Codependents both have considerable denial. It's not manifested in each groups lives the exact same way yet it underpins a lot of this most unhealthy bond. Online Borderlines often use...
18 Dec 202223min
BPD Ghost Discard & Hoovers Are Not About You
The relational impossibility with people with Borderline Personality Disorder is about them - NOT YOU! It's time to respect yourself, get into therapy to heal and recover and go and stay no contact. I...
15 Dec 202228min
BPD or NPD Relationship Breakups The First Step to Surviving & Recovery
BPD or NPD relationship breakups. The first step to surviving and transitioning to anactive recovery process begins with a rationally known final Breakup even when cognitive and emotional dissonance s...
10 Dec 202245min
BPD Relationships Are No Win
BPD relationships are no win relationships for those with BPD and for those who try so hard to love them. They are about control struggle two-way dynamics. These relationships between people with BPD ...
7 Dec 202239min
BPD Triggers Not Your Responsibility Do Borderlines Make You Feel How You Feel?
BPD triggers are real but others closest to a person with BPD do not cause their triggers. You are not responsible for how they feel. And, Borderlines, while responsible for often hurting others, and ...
7 Dec 202216min
