How We Survived Therapy School (Barely)
In this raw, unfiltered conversation, John & Vanessa reveal the emotional, financial, and spiritual journey of entering — and surviving — the mental health world. From burnout and red tape to awakenin...
17 Nov 202527min
The 12 Principles of Secure Love + How to Fight Without Fighting
🎓 Full video course: HERE All modules, worksheets, and bonus sessions. This video compiles key moments from two core modules from our relationship course: Module 1 — The 12 Principles: a practical ...
12 Nov 202520min
Starting Over at 52: The Day I Chose New Lenses
At 52, John realizes how often we trade our truth for “membership” - relationships, status, the idea of success - and quietly disappear. From a house fire to shaving his head, he reframes love, loss, ...
10 Nov 202518min
Hard Things to Bring Up in Therapy | The Map for Messy Honesty
Rapid-fire answers to your biggest honesty hurdles: settling vs. standards, dating vs. marriage mindset, online dating that respects your time, inviting more sex without pressure, and handling reject...
6 Nov 202519min
Attachment Trauma Series PART 3: Healing Shame: Why Safe Love Feels Scary with Rebecca Prolman
In this part 3 of our Attachment series, therapist Rebecca Prolman joins John Kim to unpack how childhood misattunement wires shame, why anger isn’t the enemy, and how “emotional completion” helps you...
5 Nov 202551min
Attachment Trauma Series PART 2 - Connection, Attunement & the Love/Sex Split with Rebecca Prolman
John Kim and Rebecca Prolman unpack how childhood attachment wounds and the shame-based adaptations they create - shape adult relationships. They trace core capacities (connection, attunement, trust,...
3 Nov 202546min
How to Heal From Your Attachment Trauma Series with Rebecca Prolman PART 1
In Part 1 of this 3-episode series, John Kim and licensed therapist Rebecca Prolman break down attachment trauma in clear, human terms. They unpack emotional neglect, nervous-system dysregulation, the...
29 Okt 202541min
Falling for Your Therapist: Why It Happens & What It Means
What happens when therapy becomes personal? In this raw and honest conversation, John Kim talks with licensed therapist Rebecca Prolman about her real-life experience of falling for her therapist — an...
27 Okt 202542min
