Slave Training 101: The One Thing Most Doms Skip
#115 Slave training doesn’t fall apart because the sub fails — it falls apart because the Dom can’t stay consistent. In this episode, Jay shares how our Master/slave training began, why most structure...
8 Dec 20258min
Can a Submissive Still Be Feminist?
#114 Can you kneel for your partner and still stand for equality? ❤️ Download your free cheat sheet, 'How to Be a Good Sub': https://domsubliving.com/sub In this episode, we're exploring how feminism ...
1 Dec 202525min
Bruises, Branding, and the Big Questions Around Marks in BDSM
#113 Why do some scenes leave deep bruises and others nothing at all? In this episode we're unpacking bruises, branding, and marks in BDSM – what they mean emotionally, the science of bruising, how to...
24 Nov 202536min
10 Hidden Power Plays Only Experienced Doms Use
#112 Ever met a Dom who can control a room without saying a word? In this episode, we're revealing the 10 hidden power plays only experienced Dominants use – how silence, attention, and anticipation b...
17 Nov 202525min
The Biggest Lies You’ve Been Told About BDSM & Kink
#111 What if everything you’ve heard about BDSM and kink is wrong? In this episode, we're busting the biggest Dom/sub myths holding people back—from feeling too inexperienced to thinking BDSM is immor...
10 Nov 202519min
What No One Admits About BDSM—But We Just Did
#110 BDSM isn’t just fantasy—it’s how real people grow. Alesandra and Deborah Kat get honest about living a D/s lifestyle: consent, safewords, limits, protocols, weekly check-ins, 24/7 dynamics, paren...
3 Nov 202546min
My 3 Must-Haves for Every BDSM Scene (True Story)
#109 What makes a BDSM scene truly work? We talk about limits all the time—but rarely about the things we actually need to feel connected, grounded, and fulfilled. In this episode, Alesandra opens up ...
27 Okt 202519min
Spirituality and BDSM: What No One Talks About
#108 Can BDSM be spiritual? In this episode, we're exploring the meditative and transformative side of power exchange — from subspace and Domspace to mindful rituals, breathwork, and spiritual afterca...
20 Okt 202520min
