Episode 20 - Sexual Healing with Sexpert Keeley Rankin

Today's episode is sponsored by @insomniacthlete_ . More info at the bottom of show notes. Thanks, Ruben! (0:00) Introduction to Keeley Rankin, (IG Keeleyrankinsexcoach), leading sex and relationship coach. What her job looks like, and how she got there. (5:48) What is holding people back from having their best sex life? (8:30) Maneuvering around “desire discrepancy” (12:52) There is more to relationships than just sex (15:10) How relationships (including the sexual aspect) evolve over the years, and how life’s experiences are brought into the bedroom (19:23) Frontal lobe development (21:58) Sex is part of a fulfilling life, but it’s not the only thing that makes it fulfilling. Sex as a meditative practice (25:18) New Relationship Energy (NRE) (29:37) When communication fails, therapy is beneficial for more reasons than you think (32:23) Helping build sex positive kids in an appropriate and healthy manner. (39:14) Porn and the effects it has on sex expectations (43:28) What is a porn addiction (50:08) Appropriate course correction when dealing with a porn impulsivity (54:49) Sexual self care (1:00:00) Pros and cons of an open relationship (1:09:30) Story time with Seamus (1:14:12) Conclusion

Find Keeley here, where she has multiple courses, a newsletter, and even a free gift: “7 Secrets to Mind-blowing Sex”. She specializes in Male Performance Issues, and is well-known in the therapy community. You can follow her on IG at @Keeleyrankinsexcoach.

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Referenced in the pod (some are paid links. As an Amazon Associate, we occasionally earn from qualifying purchases.) (8:30) Desire discrepancy occurs when one partner's desire is higher or lower than his or her partner's (36:36) Joannides, Paul “Guide to Getting it On” https://amzn.to/43HGugC (38:08) Emezi, J.K. www.elevatedrecovery.org (45:13) Wilson, Gary “Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction” https://amzn.to/3L8MXdA #podcastlove #podcastofinstagram #relationshipsbelike #relationshipscoach #relationshipskills #realrelationships #sexeducation #sexualhealth #sexpositive #fyp #instagood #trending #viral #letstalkaboutsex #keepingitreal #erectiondysfunction #sexualhealing #maleperformanceissues #pornaddiction #pornaddictionrecovery #goodsex #letstalkaboutsex