Ep. 181 - Old, Haggard and Dead

Hey guys - It’s Dani (“Danica” if we want to get professional), joined once again by Riley and we cover A LOT this episode: instagram shadow bans, Corona racism, FaceTime dates,   Danica Darling’s Instagram is a Spanish home-wrecker, our confrontation (it’s a positive thing) with a fellow podcast, and PORN PORN PORN!  We read two hilarious messages from listeners : one who was emailed by a cat fish pretending to be his wife in an embarrassing attempt to get nudes and another who had to console a guy about his ex girlfriend mid-penetration. We also tackle your questions:  Are we okay with listeners subscribing to our OníyFans ?... (FUCK YES!) Do we feel sex work can be lonely? How do you find private gigs? How do you pick a stripper name? PSAs : * Online lap dance workshop = May 21st @ 7pm (use the link in @50plusatip bio to buy your ticket)  * Ethical porn to check out: Erika Lust (@erikalust), Four Chambered Heart (www.afourchamberedheart.com), Make love Not Porn (@makelovenotporn), & www.kink.com  * Use code “TRULYPLUSATIP” to get 10% off your first order of amazing skincare products from Truly Lifestyle Brand (@trulylifestylebrand) * Use code “TIP25” to get 25% off your entire order of seductive lingerie from Temptations Avenue Lingerie (@temptationsavenuelingerie)

29 Huhti 20201h 24min

Today I am joined by Kordella (@ms_kordella_kosor), who has more than a decade of experience being in the Sex Work industry, as an active member, a volunteer and an advocate. With many titles under her belt including: touring stage performer, burlesque dancer, adult content creator, entrepreneur, and former Miss Nude World Hard Body, Au name tural and Best Dancer - I could not be more excited to sit down with her (via google hangouts) and pick her brain !  We cover a ton of topics this episode: working dry bars, throwing loonies for swag, booking agencies, sugaring in Vancouver, Only Fans issues, adapting to the ever changing industry, the emotional labour of SW, and upcoming ventures (hint: it involves strippers and a penthouse!).  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

22 Huhti 202055min

Welcome back to quarantine with Dani and Riley! What is happening in the world, like seriously?! This week we: address the North Van poop lady, review the Lost Girls movie, discuss Only Fans concerns, voice our corona curiosity, and appoint our loser of the week (some disgusting slob of a man who is publicly claiming that OF girls will never find love). Shout out to @thewavedancer for being a supportive fellow SW, providing us with some stay or go scenarios and just being an overall gem of a human! And lastly... DM me and let me know what you guys would want for 50 PLUS A TIP merch! Crop tops, hoodies, pleaser bags, phone grips?! TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT!! Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

16 Huhti 202049min

Today I am joined by Dora Kola (@dorakola) , a 24 year old exotic entertainer and badass entrepreneur based in Vancouver, Canada. If you follow Dora on Instagram (which you fucking better!!) you know she’s a no-fucks-given rocker chick who is unapologetically herself. We talk: her education and career in radio, how SW is real fucking work, slut shaming, racism in the sex industry, the fetishization of Asian women, and proudly owning who and what we are.  As always, thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

8 Huhti 20201h 3min

Hey all you cool cats and kittens!! I’m “here” with Riley and we are not letting Covid-19 stop our recording schedule (shout out to Google Hangouts). We update you on our self isolation situations, our Only Fans / camming venture, our stripper Dungeons and Dragons game and answer your weekly questions:  What are you most excited for once everything opens back up (besides working)? What do you do to keep yourself mentally health during self isolation ? Do you think sex work will be affected by covid long term? What can sex workers do to help earn some income at the current moment? Do you think going through onlyfans would be better or should I sell clients my photos directly? What sites do you recommend for fetish stuff? Have you watched tiger king? A few PSA:  - 50 PLUS A TIP merch may be coming!! What sort of pieces would you want? Tank tops? Pins? Phone grips? LET ME KNOW!!  - Dani may begin doing virtual erotica and stretch classes - keep an eye out for announcements!  - Use the 50 PLUS A TIP promo code : “TIP25” to get 25% off your entire order at Temptations Avenue Lingerie !!! (@temptationsavenuelingerie) Thanks for listening! Have a wonderful week and happy hoe-ing!

2 Huhti 20201h 12min

We all know dating is HARD! But dating as a SW is a whole other thing!! This week I sit down with PR girl Halina to discuss: not being “out” as a SW, making friends in the sex industry, how to navigate the dating scene as a SW, how dating impacts your income, and how being a SW impacts your sex drive.  Also - real talk: why do these men want a “hot” woman but can’t handle it when they get one?!  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

26 Maalis 20201h 5min

Hello lovelies! I’m joined once again by Riley and we are recapping: corona virus pandemic, Dani’s birthday & sfu lecture, psycho exes and their terrible families, and our (embarrassingly subpar) skin care routines. We answer your questions: does your mood effect which songs you dance to? What do strip clubs do to increase your safety? Does your boss create safe spaces for you? What happens when dancers want to retire ? Also, do we stay or go when: They only brush their teeth once a day; always wear camouflage; doesn’t own a car (or a license); has dirty finger nails; bulk bought toilet paper and hand sanitizer at the start of corona virus?  Thanks for listening and happy hoeing - Now go wash your hands!!

18 Maalis 202045min

This week I am joined by Sahara Rose - a charismatic, fiery blonde, with ten years of experience in the industry. What started out as a means to make a few extra bucks, turned into a passion for self expression and a way to channel her outgoing personality towards a career. We talk: how the industry has changed over the last decade, how everyone is a prostitute, coworker dynamics, staying safe in the industry, dealing with stalker clients, and how we predict the industry will change in the future.  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

12 Maalis 20201h 24min