Ep. 181 - Old, Haggard and Dead

Hello lovely listeners! We are officially at 5000 followers and accepting sponsors! So hit us up if you or someone you know is looking for a dope ass podcast to sponsor!  Some other fun dates to note: Dani’s birthday is coming up this weekend, the next erotica dance workshop will be held in April (date TBA) and Dani will be guest lecturing at SFU March 12th. On this week’s episode we recap Riley’s birthday weekend, discuss when it’s a good idea to move in with a partner, talk how to recover after being rejected from a club after auditioning, how to ask someone about their sexual health (STI status/ history), and how to get a guy to wear a condom when they really don’t want to.  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

5 Maalis 20201h 4min

On this week’s episode, Riley and I have the pleasure of interviewing an American couple living in New Zealand who recently dove into a "sluttaissance" together. Think “swinging” (sort of) but with a hot young husband and wife who have so much love and trust in one another, exploring their sexuality with other people as a couple. Libby (a naturopath) and Gregg (with a doctorate in psychology) answered our many questions with openness and humour: do your friends/family know about your sexual situation? How did you know that this was something you wanted to try? How did you first begin your journey into it? What has been the most challenging aspect? Is it ever uncomfortable/ awkward? Can you go back to monogamy after exploring being poly as a couple? How do you meet other open individuals / couples? And WHO THE FUCK CAME IN HER EYE?!! Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

26 Helmi 20201h 12min

On this episode of 50 Plus A Tip, we are freezing our asses off in Riley’s ice cube of a bedroom! We go over where our listeners are from, share our very sad Valentine’s Days and discuss that Dani is extremely intimidating (read: super cool).  As always we answer listener questions: how do you screen clients for sugaring? What’s the strip scene like in Vegas  / tips for working in Vegas? How does it work being a sober stripper? How do you stay motivated when you don’t have anyone telling you to work ? And... We introduce a new portion of the show called: “Should I stay or should I go now?” Would we stay with a partner if they: Slept with your best friend? Doesn’t go down on you? Slid into everyone’s dms before you met them? Doesn’t wash their hands with soap? Doesn’t groom down there? We are here tackling the real burning questions, people!  Lastly, an important PSA: Dani is teaching an Erotic Dance class Sunday March 8th @ 7:30-9:30pm in Vancouver! Come celebrate INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY with me - Click the link in the bio to get your tickets! Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!!

19 Helmi 202044min

This week I am joined by Naomi Vice (@naomixvice) - an exotic performer based in Vancouver with a flair for sensual movement and musicality. With a background in ballet, jazz, and musical theatre, it only makes sense that performing became her full-time gig. She is also a professional singer with a music degree and an actor working in the film industry. Naomi is grateful to use the exotic industry as a platform for her many talents. We talk: the difference between dancing stage and dancing vip / freelancing; being a gorgeous Filipino lady in the strip world; traveling out of town for work; putting together a good stage set; tips for ladies wanting to start stage and/or traveling; how burlesque differs from stripping; and dish on the good and the bad places to work in BC.  Thank you for listening and happy hoe-ing!

13 Helmi 202055min

We’re back bitches! Happy 2020!  This is the first episode of season 2 and it’s a long one (you’re welcome). Trigger warning: this episode talks about eating disorders and sexual assault. Yes, they are heavy topics but that doesn’t mean we should shy away from them. In fact - silence and secrecy can be dangerous, so let’s start talking!  This episode we also cover a ton of other things: we share our 2020 resolutions, go over  my surgery details, recap December and January, share more stories about annoying people on Instagram, condom use & STDs/STIs and most common questions/remarks from clients in the strip club.   Finally,  we tackle the first round of questions of 2020: how do I stay safe and set boundaries when arranging a sugar daddy meet? How do you clarify with a client that he needs to pay you for a date? How can a client protect himself from online scams or stings? Do clients like smart girls or does it intimidate them? What’s the most fulfilling part about sex work?  PSA : Valentine’s / Galentine’s Day is coming up and what better excuse to get your sexy on! I’ll be teaching another lap dance course in Vancouver on Feb 10th @ 7-9pm. CLICK THE LINK in @50plusatip ig bio to GET YOUR TICKET!!  Thanks for joining us for the first episode of the SECOND SEASON of 50 Plus A Tip and happy hoe-ing!!

5 Helmi 20201h 42min

This week I am joined by Jennifer Doan (@jenn_doan), a sex educator, podcast host and self-proclaimed slut! We talk: that “feminine” and “masculine” are bullshit terms, why “virginity” is a problematic social construct, what “feminism” means / should mean, how your sexuality can constantly change and evolve, what squirting is, THC lube, and unpack some of the common misconceptions surrounding female genitalia, periods, and sex! Please note: your sex is NORMAL! Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

18 Joulu 20191h 2min

This week I sat down with Sia (@strippedbysia)  a fellow stripper-podcaster-hybrid to discuss: how taking a pole class in her 30s led to a successful stripper career, competing in pole dance competitions, balancing a corporate job and a stripping career, squares pole dancing while shaming strippers, going on trips with sugar daddies, the dangers of meeting sugar daddies online, and eating fermented shark.  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!

11 Joulu 201954min

Once again I’m joined by Riley and we talk: how crowds and woos don’t pay our bills, Dani is now a gamer nerd, more loser men on Instagram, RMT certificates for erotic massage, plastic surgery, how to get a stripper to go out with you, SW terms and jargon, contents of our stripper bag and how to avoid December burn out. ALSO: I have received several messages from both men and women interested in taking the lap dance course. Lap dance classes aren’t just for women! I am more than happy to teach some classes strictly for females and offer some classes for all genders. Therefore, Males, females, whatever you identify as MESSAGE ME if you’d like to attend the next lap dance class!  Thanks for listening and happy hoe-ing!!

4 Joulu 20191h 15min