The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club10 Des 2025

The Red Flags You Ignored That Quietly Destroy Relationships | Dating After Divorce

Did you ignore red flags in your last relationship, only to see them clearly after it ended?In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, Erica sits down with trauma-informed coach Chavisa Horemans to break down the real science behind red flags in dating after divorce. They explore how warning signs show up through behavior, language, and your nervous system long before a relationship falls apart.If you are dating again, healing after divorce, or learning to trust your intuition, this episode will sharpen your discernment and help you stop normalizing what your body already knows is not safe.

You’ll learn:

Red flags vs yellow flags

Trauma and dating after divorce

How your nervous system detects danger

Online dating warning signs

Rebuilding trust in yourself

We talk about:

00:00 Intro

03:00 Red flags vs yellow flags

06:00 Dating profiles and hidden warnings

10:00 Conditional love and power dynamics

15:00 Why we normalize red flags

20:00 Trust, intuition, and discernment

30:00 Somatic healing and self-trust

36:00 Final takeaways

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